I personally don't have any... but if that's what gets you off, it is what it is lol. Embrace it. Have fun, that's what it's all about anyway. My hands and his dick do the job just great for me though lol.
I have a couple of toys, but the only reason I don't use them often is that it's almost more trouble than it's worth. I like them for special occasions.
It's not normal, but if a man doesn't excite you anymore or he can't give you the pleasure you seek, you can do what I did with my boyfriend - we've talked and decided to buy a vibrator. We've chose that one - "Cascade flow self-lubricating vibrator – traditional vibrator '' from Edenfantasys. It really saved our sex-life, and now it became our best friend for kinky experiments ^^ We like it!
It's okay for both, but it seems to be normal these days. Not all men and women have the courage to intercourse with their opposite sex. Men using sex toys is not a loser at all some people have behavior in which things that will make them satisfied or happy when they used it or buy it.
The reason it isn't talked about for men is because it isn't a gigantic business like female sex toys are. In every faucet of society, for the most part, you'll notice that most products are catered towards woman, because a man is much more likely to buy a woman something, than a woman buying a man something.. It is a largely unsaid aspect of the sexes, but when you analyze business and how they promote their products, it becomes very clear who they are marketing towards.
Guys shouldnt have dildos bro. Unless you like it up the rear. God gave u a rough but snug palm to do your yankin. Although a fleshlight would be pretty cool.
I have a cock ring and it does wonders when used right. If the chick or other guys don't respect that, then move on.
I know this thread is like 5 years old but I have to put my 2 cents in. Why is it perfectly acceptable for a woman to go to Walmart and buy lube and one of those vibrating finger rings but if a man buys a porn mag and a bottle of Jack he's some kind of a degenerate?
My boyfriend felt weird or was flustered when he found my vibrator in the beggining of our relationship. Men like to think they are all you need, but if you're super kinky of have a high sex drive, or your sex drives don't align, you're gonna have some toys. Also dependent upon the relationship, you visit the sex store together and pick out things together. Try it sometime, guys. And who knows why it's looked down upon for guys. I agree with the marketing comment above.
It's weird for guys to have sex toys because what's the need for it tbh, I can just watch porn and jerk it, hell some people get weird and make their own pocket pussies and shit.