Ok so here's some backround information. I have a cousin who is just a year younger than I am, and he is the most disrespectful person I have ever known. Everything he has was given to him, no question, he just ask and bam it's there. The way he acts towards me and the rest of our cousins he's a normal kid. But our younger cousin he pretty much terrorizes her, always throwing stuff at her, and telling her she won't make it in life. So today I got fed up, me and the family were at his house to watch the super bowl with his family, shit I was there for 30 minutes and I left. Right when I heard him start up with my little cousin I stormed up to him and started yelling at him telling him not to be a douchebag, and how he would have felt, if i did the same shit to him. The whole time he just looked me in the eyes but he didn't say anything. After I was done I grabbed my keyes, and I went home. I took a nap when I got up to my room, when I woke up all hell broke loose. It turns out that after I had left, that fucker told the whole family I was an alcoholic with a drug addiction. He told everyone how I was getting drunk every weekend and was addicted to weed and e, and how I have experimented with shrooms and acid. I cannot believe this shit, after all the years I put up with this little degenerate, and for him to do me dirty like this? Low fucking blow amirite? Now my image in the family is ruined just because I stood up against something that was in no way right.
Wow, that is fucked up. Hopefully Karma will bite him in the ass one day. How old is your cousin by the way?
what a bitch, thats why he waited till after you left to talk shit just deny everything and if your family loves you, they shouldnt disown you
honestly if any of that isnt true I personally wouldnt really react or try to make a big scene about it. I think it would look more suspicious if you freaked out about it and tried to change everyones perspective than just play it off as if its not true. Kinda like if its not true then why worry? Also I am sure your not the only one who knows this kids a trouble maker and despite many stupid parents in this world I am sure they have heard some sort of complaint. Anyways I would personally deny any claims when they are brought up and not really bring it up on your own. Just me though.
Damn, please tell me you will not let this end. You have to call him out in front of the family (as long as this isn't true, if it IS, then nevermind haha) Make his realize how much he fucked up. People like that won't learn until they are FORCED to learn. Force him.
yea really sound like the kids a little punk you did the right thing by telling him to smarten up but just shows how a spoiled kid act when thing dont go his way and say that shit to your family no respect thats shitty dude deny it to the grave
Then the OP would look like the asshole. Be the bigger person and just blow it off. If this kid is treating people like shit then in life hes going to get a big reality check. Turning it around on someone who doesnt understand that his life can be instantly changed isnt going to help instead its only going to be more of a reason for the OP's parents to suspect that he/she(since I dont know) is trying to cover up or blame it on someone else.
I'm 18 my cousins 17. I don't really know how the rest of my family took it, but some of the things he said have credibility, but not as bad as he stated. I do smoke, and I do drink but not every weekend, I hardly drink actually. And I have done e, but only like twice. But for him to call me an addict, that was just earned him a /ignore forever.
Haha I just quoted your post and replied to it. Just remember to take a breather and just act like its not true. Also I mean your parents will always love you and teens/young adults will try with alcohol and weed and what not. Its part of growing up and with out it I think helps one mature. *edit* If you have not sold anything/crashed or anything of that sort I dont think you can really be classified by your cousin or your parents as an addict. I dont know what your parents stance on weed and drinking is but often the word "addiction" can be thrown around loosely by teens. I would agree with ignoring him and avoiding him since hes a waste of your time just dont lose your cool on him or what he says.
Yeah I just talked it out with him, but I was ready in case he tried to touch me. He even shoved one of my uncles just because he told him he needs to watch his language around my aunts. Shows how much respect he has for others eh?
Yea well one day hes gonna realize he cant talk shit to everyone in the world and hes gonna get a severe ass whooping of some sort whether its physical or whatever else is possible haha
Just let it go, fuming over his bad deeds will hurt you more in the long run, life is too short to be preoccupied with grudges assholes will try to screw you over your whole life, but holding onto anger is like "grasping on a hot coal with the intent to throw it at someone. It is you who gets burned." Gautama
One day he's gonna be out on his own, and he's gonna be fucked. He'll look or someone to help him, and then he'll realize everyone hates his fucking guts. Whoever said karma will get him is damn right. You reap what you sow. Life is a tragedy to those who feel and a comedy to those who think. Just keep your chin up because at some point he'll get what's coming to him. You'll get the last laugh.
show some truth. tell your family how your dbag cousin treats your younger cousin. tell your family that this outburst from dbag cuz is only because he is mad at you for sticking up for younger cuz. paint a picture of your dbag cuz being a dbag in everyday life. if your other cousins agree with you, tell them to speak up about how this guy is a fuckwad.