Is smoking a requirement for your significant other? Or do they have to respect your smoking? I'm thinking about trying to rekindle an old flame with an ex, as we broke up under more miscommunication than anything else. She's an absolute sweetheart, very passionate about her religion, incredibly attractive, and very moral. She's the type of girl that one would settle down with, instead of fool around with. I'm attracted to the idea of settling down, but I'm also a very spontaneous person. I love to travel, and I love diversity. Two things that make commitment very difficult, however I'd like to try I think. On the other hand, it's nice to be single, and chill out. One problem though, is weed. She doesn't smoke, probably never will, and is against recreational smoking. I'm pretty sure she respects me and my love of cannabis though, but I'm not sure to what degree. I need to eventually sit down and talk to her about smoking and our relationship, which I'm sure will come around eventually. She knows I smoke, and am very passionate about marijuana culture, science and activism, we've talked a bit about how I'd rather have a designated room in my house for smoking, and that I think the idea should be brought up to my children when they are at an age where they can decide for themselves what they think. She thinks it's very reasonable, and considers it respectable, but I'm still not sure how it would work out. What do you guys think about all of this? Should I see if things work out with her, or find someone who's more open to ganja? As it's a pretty epic part of my life, it's hard to imagine not smoking with my wife, even if only on occasion.