I am really looking for a lady's point of view here, and pose this question..... Do you consider it cheating if you are having an affair with yourself? I'm not talking about just jerking off, but planning alone time and making love to yourself. I've been married 36 years and have a good sex life with my wife but I want more than she needs.
I...well... eh. .. . I assume no? It would raise some concern about the health of said relationship but ...I don't think it can be cheating if it's just you...
You are asking if there is some sort of 'monogamous obligation' surrounding fervent masturbation, or ?? Dude, I've been married twice, each time for 10+ years, and I DEMAND alone time....and ample jacking off time.
Right I thought it would blow up. Guess not...... Let's Smoke About It...... Sade's outdoor Bigfoot territory grow
i woudlnt say so no, but just because it isnt cheating doesnt mean she wont break up with you or punch fuck out you. quick question, how the fuck are you supposed to do that?
This thread has been wild. I don't think there's anything wrong with self-love. Couples' sex drives don't always have to sync up; it's what you do during those incompatible moments that are key. Taking care of yourself when your wife may not be feeling sexual isn't bad and is sometimes necessary for both men and women. Imo, you aren't doing anything wrong. However, I'd probably refrain from saying things like "in a relationship with myself" and "making love to myself". Sent from my SM-N910V using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I expected the responses to this to be all over the place, but not about making love to yourself. I really don't see that part as odd. Like I said, it's not about jerking off, it's about spending quality alone time with yourself, but in a sexual way. I enjoy my own company, I'm my own best friend and I don't feel like I'm a narcissist