so i have this friend who has asked me to help her stop drinking because she thinks she has a problem with it and i do what i can. as a couple weeks go by she tells me when she drinks and i talk to her trying to help and she knows i dont like her drinking especially when shes asked for my help and this what pissed me off is that she invites me over to her house to visit her and her family for superbowl sunday when her friend picks me up i see a case of bud light and they stop by a store to pick a 30 case and that makes me wonder so as we get to her house i see other cars parked in front and at that point i knew she was definitely drinking. as i walk in the door i see her table being set up for bp and she comes and can tell im upset and ask whats wrong. so i tell her and i tell her im leaving im having my room mate pick me up. i dont know about yall but that just really pissed me off i mean if she didnt like bud it would be like me saying "HEY come on over and we can chill" once she gets here i am smokin weed with all my buddies she wouldnt want to stay there and she would most likely be pissed as well just needed to vent but what do you think about it?
honestly, i think ur trippin, let her do what she wants, i bet she just wants ur dick. soooo i dunno, do something?' but iuf that's not your challenge then tell her she's fuckin up and you're done with her pinner shit. there done and no more you could do. good luck
wells shes a really close friend and i would hate to see her life go to shit cause of drinking i've seen what it can do to people and families. im talking to her tomorrow and im going to be as blunt as i can be hopefully she'll take in what i say
you can't control anyones actions but you should try to not be offended by them especially if she's your good friend. maybe try to talk some sense into her instead of giving her the cold shoulder. ignoring the problem won't fix it.