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Discussion in 'General' started by wildc@rd, Jul 26, 2004.

  1. #1 wildc@rd, Jul 26, 2004
    Need a bit of advice here -

    I have known this girl for about 6 months (on a friendship basis) and about 4 days ago she turns up at my flat asking if I fancy going out for a drink. Well, it's quite late and all the pubs are about to call last orders so she pops down to the off-licence and picks up a 4 pack of vodka mixers. To cut a long story short, I end up shagging her after she tells me that she's moving away in 14 days time and all she wants is a good time before she goes.

    Here's the tricky bit.... We keep going at it over the weekend and she starts to get all serious: [telling me that she loves me and that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me] (all after 4 bloody days).

    It was at this point that I decided to have a heart to heart with her and let her know that I'm not at the same place as her and I'm pretty keen on cooling things off.

    **** She goes apeshit, crying and pleading for me not to leave her. As it turns out, I ask her to leave my flat and she flatly refuses for 4 hours until I freak out and fireman lift her through the door.....? All through this she's telling me that she'll be my slave or whore if I don't leave her. FUCK!!!!

    Tell me, am I a bastard? What the hell am I supposed to do?
     
  2. #2 EuropeanVW, Jul 26, 2004
    Although the personal whore/slave sounds tempting, you did the right thing.

    Why would the girl be looking for such a strong committed relationship if shes moving in a few days?

    Seems like your discussion was the mature thing to do on your part and it seems like you handled the situation perfectly fine.

    The girl obviously has some issues that she needs to get worked out.

    Don't feel bad about anything. She wanted a good time, and you apparently gave it to her. A little too good of a time, I guess. but still, thats not your fault man.

    Sorry that she reacted like that, but hey, you did your part, she just needs to get things straightened out in her head and continue on with her life.

    Want my advice? Smoke a bowl and get a good nights sleep and get on with your life. You did all you could, shes obviously got her own demons.

    :D
     
  3. #3 wildc@rd, Jul 26, 2004
    Cheers mate, I appreciate that.
     
  4. #4 Toker4life420, Jul 26, 2004
    QUOTE:
    To cut a long story short, I end up shagging her after she tells me that she's moving away in 14 days time and all she wants is a good time before she goes.

    hahahahahahahaha you said shagging i havent heard that word since i last saw the Austin Powers movie 6 years ago god i hate those movies
     
  5. #5 wildc@rd, Jul 26, 2004
    Oh... behave.
     

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  6. #6 stainles278, Jul 26, 2004
    are you from england btw what a flat
     
  7. #7 wildc@rd, Jul 26, 2004
    Edinburgh originally, but living and working in Oxford. A flat is what we toff's quaintly call an apartment.
     

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