You fuss and raise hell all weekend long that no one helps you with the housework, laundry, cooking, etc. And then last night when I start cleaning up the house, picking up stuff, dusting, and sorting laundry (all on my own without being asked to do it) I get attacked again. The attack? she says "I guess I don't do a good enogh job for you" etc. she thinks because I help that her housework doesn't meet my expectations or satisfaction. ARRRRRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! I can't win, I give up. I get fussed at for not helping, then I get fussed at for helping. I have no clue what goes on in a woman's head.