sorry if this comes across as a rant, but i am recollecting my thoughts from yesterday and today/night. what does it mean when a girl keeps glancing over her shoulder at you in class and you don't do anything about it!? why do i wait so damn long to make a decision to say something? how can i change this and be more 'ballsy' when it comes to the girls? tonight for example, perfect chance to talk to 2 girls who were by themselves. well you stood there with a beer and hand while they obviously look at you, smile , and invite you over there. how coame its too hard to move closer and initate a converstations? i can be charming, but i rarely make the first move. why is it so difficult for me? any tips fellowe GCers .? i need help[ seeriously !! THanks
Just realize that you're going to beat yourself up over it if you don't. Don't try to make out an elaborate plan, because chances are, you aren't going to be yourself. Think about it this way, what's the worst that could happen? You talk to them and they aren't interested? Well, that'll eliminate those two girls if you don't gel, and you can move onto others at the party. Also, what's the best that could happen? You could find a really good friend, girlfriend, smoke buddy, whatever. Also, take it as a learning experience. How are you going to get more experienced at approaching girls and being comfortable if you never try it? I used to go through the same thing as you. I'm a charming guy, but I'm way too shy to go over and say hi. I usually have to get comfortable with the situation. However, recently I've taken the advice stated above, and all I can say is wow! There really isn't much better satisfaction then being successful, making a move and having it work. That totally outweighs anything bad that could happen. Good luck bro.
every female is an oppurtunity. it doesn't matter who they are; provided they're within your range. if she's looked at you on more than a few occasions, then clearly there is something she finds pyshically attractive about you. just say hi. tell her your name, and wait for her to respond. if she's quiet, ask her about the class. see if she'll tell you how she doing in it. if she's doing really good, then you know atleast she's not an idiot. if she's doing average... maybe she getts high too. and if she's failing, she might be worth a "short fling". so, there you go. how to tell if she's into you and her worth in the first 15 seconds. and, just to let you know... if she's looked at you more than a few times during class, if she's over the age of 16; she's certainly had a few dirty thoughts. good luck