Women 30 or older: Have you ever been with a younger man (Younger being 18-25)?

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  1. #1 dkflwr, Jun 19, 2009
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    I've seen lots of threads around regarding "MILFS" and "cougars" and all other manner of older women and the people who either love them or don't. Haven't found one that asks older women for their perspective on hanging out with "all the young dudes"**.

    Well, have you ever?

    How did it happen?

    What did you think?

    Do you have a preference for guys younger than you, or closer to your own age?

    I know there aren't many of us around here, but I'm interested anyway.

    As for myself, I've had my experiences, and I have a few contemporaries who have also. Based on casual conversations over the course of the last 8 years or so, we'd all probably say the rating of each enounter depended more on the individual than his age, but I think I can make some generalizations that are age-relevant:

    The sheer tensile strength of their erections is something to behold. Most of the time when I've remarked that I wouldn't believe a cock was made of flesh and blood if not for the throbbing, it's been with a guy in his twenties.

    Their eagerness is cute. They've often got so much desire and so little experience, all crashing together and waiting to be harnessed and directed. Like I say, it's cute.

    Usually they can go more than once in the course of an evening. Of course, each round may only last five minutes or so if you're bringing your A game.

    Sometimes, if you are looking for stimulating conversation as well as fucking, it can be a drag. They just haven't lived long enough, sometimes, to have much perspective on life.

    Sometimes, they don't have the control, technique, or sensitivity that a more experienced guy will have.

    Sometimes, they think you're supposed to be grateful for their presence just because they're younger. But that seems to change when you let them know you'd rather masturbate than tolerate their tiresome (and usually unfounded) arrogance. I said to a guy once, "Just because you've memorized all the moves you could from your daily porn habit, it don't mean you know how to fuck, sonny." He got smart right quick, I'll tell you that. lol

    Don't get me wrong--I've made some lasting friendships with guys who are around 25, a few with whom I've hooked up, who were the most skilfull, masterful, exhilarating, sensitive-yet-edgy lovers a woman could ever want. Plus, they were and are awesome human beings outside of all that.

    But overall, I prefer guys closer to my own age.

    **Song by Mott The Hoople. Check it out, if you haven't heard it.

     
  2. I am 34 but I have been married since I was 26. I used to date older guys when I was in my 20's.

    I don't really thing age matters.
     
  3. I doubt your gonna get many answers
     
  4. I'm 30. :) I have always been with older men. Even when I was 18, never been interested in younger guys, too many issues, but I still flirt with them. :eek:
     
  5. Well, I'm interested more in quality than quantity, so that's okay.

    Thanks to the ladies who've answered so far.
     

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