I just thought about it and This is what my conclusion is. (I've been on both sides) so if your reading this you are a nice guy that is not popular and is confused because the jerks get all the chicks? And you always come off as a friend. Its simply because the jerks are the more interesting people. They are the type of people chicks look to be really entertained and interested. Other than nice guys that are there giving support and making the girl feel good about her self. That's just my two cents. I'm not sure if if makes sense or sounds stupid yet but w.e. There is Alot more to it but I'm too tired to write another 2 paragraphs
I know how you feel bro. I've been in love with this chick for 2 years and she only saw me as a friend. Id write her poems and shit, she'd read them and smile then go sit by the asshole that cheats on her and insulted her. Just know that after enough assholes, the chick Will want some real love. Thats when you come in and trust me, you'll become the love of her life (Speaking from experience.Hahaha im with her now!)
girls want guys that they think they can fix. if you're already a good guy with a good job and a stable life then they aren't interested. i just so happened to find the exact opposite with this chick im with now so find the girls with the good jobs and good tits and great taste in weed. im a lucky guy
A lot of times girls just date dooshy guys for looks and nothing else. Those dudes usually cheat so it's their loss.