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Why must Friends be like this

Discussion in 'Seasoned Marijuana Users' started by dankdude420, Aug 18, 2008.

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  1. #1 dankdude420, Aug 18, 2008
    Whats up GC, this is my first post so ill tell you all a bit about myself. I tried smoking a couple of times before i started smoking on a daily basis; which has been about a year and 4 months. Enough about me i'll get to the point.

    I hang out with some guy...ill call him Corey, anyways I've been coreys friend for a long time and i love hanging out with him. So where's the problem? No nicer way to say it, hes a bum. Still kicks it at his parents house, jobless, and always budless. Now tokin with this guy over time it has almost become my obligation to blaze em up. Like i said i usually smoke on a daily basis, i miss a day here and there, and i toke with my friend more than half the time. This nukka never gives me gas money, never gives me bud money, and RARELY matches. I love hangin out with this man but i dont know how much longer i can take it, after all there isnt a bud fairy that blesses me with dank bud every week (but that would be fucking sweet). I'm kinda at a lost at what to do, I want to give him a reality check but...i fear things wouldn't be the same after that talk cuz he is kinda sensitive. What do you all think?
     
  2. #2 FormerlyBlank, Aug 18, 2008
    Just tell him gently, "hey man when you gonna start throwing down too, then we can get really smoked out!" Or something like that, so your not just coming out and telling him hes a moocher. Good luck man
     
  3. #3 burninlitebrite, Aug 18, 2008
    i feel u all the way on that situation, i've been there wit one of my homeboys.those things are ok until they make them a habbit, which it sounds lyk ur homeboy is doin. i had to cut loose my homeboy, b/c i didnt lyk feelin used. that shit ain't real, i can do bad by myself

    so i say cut em loose
     
  4. #4 MrLebowski, Aug 18, 2008
    Dude that is a tough situation, you should maybe act like your hard pressed for bud a lot and then ask if he can throw down, and if not make it seem like yall wont be able to smoke together that much if he cant.
     
  5. #5 BUDdha KING, Aug 18, 2008
    Yo its not a delicate situation. You've been smoking him up all the time so tell him to start throwing in, or buying some munchies or the weed train stops. Doesnt mean you cant hang out with him.
     
  6. #6 burntoutd, Aug 18, 2008
    I kinda have the same problem. I smoke my friend out whenever I have bud and he never or rarely throws down. Its funny cuz he has a job an I don't. Plus he's real annoying when he's high.

    You should tell him straight up to get his shit together. If you guys are really friends you'd tell him and he should except it cuz your just trying to help him out.
     
  7. #7 dankdude420, Aug 18, 2008
    I've told him that when he starts puttin up we can roll a dub blunt and stuff like that, he replies with "Oh hell yeh...do you mind if i roll this one." its like "WHAT ARE YOU FUCKING SUPPLYING?!"...but really hes a fucking bum. He lives at home, jobless, moneyless, budless; but me and this man go WAYYYY back, elementary days for real. I've told him he needs to get a job but hes too fuckin lazy. I honestly love hangin out with this man and we always have a fuckin blast. its just that I am still only 18 so i'm not raking in fat money to support BOTH of us smoking.
     
  8. #8 dankdude420, Aug 18, 2008
    I've told him nicely many times he has to get his act straight; but its not gettin through his thick skull...I'm at a lost
     
  9. #9 Toblerone, Aug 18, 2008
    I had a friend like that, who was startin to get on my nerves with the moochin, and finally stepped over the limit when I came back from class one day and he's in my room smokin the last of MY bud. I flipped out, he acted like I was overreacting, but we're cool now, just cuz I started playin the mooch game back on him. I'll call up and invite myself over to smoke his bud, play his video games, eat his food, same as he did with me, and now we're tight again. I realize now that its because he almost expected me to mooch back, like it was normal; he didnt think of it as mooching, more of a "yours is mine" approach, so once I started thinking on the same level it all worked out. But still, theres times he asks me if I have any bud that I'll say no, just cuz I dont wanna smoke (have to go to class/work/elsewhere)
     
  10. #10 dankdude420, Aug 18, 2008

    Thats actually a really good idea. The only thing is...this guy has nothin to mooch on so sadly things wont work out like that. I was REALLY close to getting a possesion charge last week so i quit smoking for a while. hmm, i just realized ever since i stopped smokin he stopped callin me; maybe i was just being used and he took our friendship for granted?
     
  11. #11 blazinit, Aug 18, 2008
    It's possible he just used you, and my story isn't really related to this but w.e.:

    I was chilling with my friend Blaze the other day (yeah, that's actualy his fucking name!) and we were chilling at his house, then his friend Ryan invited us over to his house. We accepted, and headed over. Ryan is quite possibly the most generous man I've ever met, he smoked the both of us up (I brought munchies because I didn't have weed) let us chill at his house for the night, and we just had a good night. Now Ryan and I hang out all the time, and he CONSTANTLY smokes EVERYONE he's with up. I always tell him he's suuuper generous, and he tells me how he goes through like an O a week

    Another time I didn't have weed, I handed him a $20 bill, and he pushed it back at me and said "nah man, I just love smoking people up"

    Later that night I left $50 under his pillow :)
     
  12. #12 FormerlyBlank, Aug 18, 2008
    You just gotta get him off his ass man, give him a reality check, tell him whats up. He could at least supply munchies or something. Are his parents ever gonna kick him out?
     
  13. #13 slicks, Aug 18, 2008
    I didn't read all the replies, but I had a situation like this long time ago. I just quit smokin with my bro. I just kept telling him I am out or never got any, started this 5 yrs ago, we still hang but we don't smoke together. He found new friends for that. You wouldn't believe how much more weed it seemed like I have
     
  14. #14 UCFStudent, Aug 18, 2008
    i had this problem big time back in NY.. i sold so i alwayssss had bud, and copious amounts of it... so none of my friends (usually would be about 4 or 5 at a time) ever thought twice about me smokin them out.

    after a while i simply would say - anyone want to throw me fives (five bux) for this blunt? or why don't you guys buy a gram and then we'll match eachother? If not, then you dont have to smoke him out, just go and chill w/ him.. after about an hour of sitting there not smoking.. he'll look at you and be like uh? huh? and just be like i can't afford to keep smoking you up, if you want to throw down some bud or money then we've got no problem, but otherwise i'm strapped for it right now
     
  15. #15 Thug Love, Aug 19, 2008
    i'm like your friend. at the moment i have no way to get money so i have to rely on my friends to smoke me up. theyve been doing this all summer and i hate it i feel like a moocher. but once i get a job ill smokem up. just tell your but buddy you dunt want to smoke him up any more. if my friends said this to me id understand i guess. but id be pissed
     
  16. #16 kshock, Aug 19, 2008
    Ha 804 VA? Sounds like a guy i know, ha i wonder if i know him
     
  17. #17 mariwannaboy, Aug 19, 2008


    Damn that is exactly what i was going to say. And also whenever he buys he makes the biggest deal out of it. Im thinking about cutting him loose and just not smoking with him.
     
  18. #18 checkhispulse, Aug 19, 2008
    I've had this same problem. Don't smoke with people like that if they're not throwing in, it's your shit that you paid for with the money you made dripping in YOUR sweat so don't be afraid to hold out.
     
  19. #19 dankdude420, Aug 19, 2008
    well i was suppose to stop smokin cuz i was caught and my parents want me to stay clean the last two weeks before college, of chorse that didnt hapeen haha. So i did a bit of an experiment today, instead of hangin with him then pickin up bud, smoking, and finding something to do; i picked up a blunt and took it straight to the dome...i figured i owed it to myself. The dude called me up seeing if i wanted to do something so i drove over and picked him up, when i asked what he had in mind a direct quote; "I dunno man you just wanna...Chill?" I was already blizted and he knew it. I told him, nah man I'm good. Well he suddenly didnt feel so good and asked to get dropped off back at his house. I have a feeling things wont be the same between us.
     
  20. #20 dankdude420, Aug 19, 2008
    Yeah this is very true and I have a gas guzaler too so i spend roughly $60 on gas a fucking week, then the $60 1/8 of dank bud, and Munchies. I'm a tutor so i make like 10 bucks an hour and i can go into work blizted without anyone knowing, so its easy money but its still my time going into it


    Also someone said if his parents are ever going to kick him out; we just graduated our Senior year of HS in June and i doubt he has any college plans in the near future, so its just a matter of time.
     
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