so yea im lookin more for this forum's females' opinions...why do yu think guys are praised for sleepin wit a new girl every week but girls have to stick wit only one guy even if that guys also gettin around???
Exactly. In my opinion, there's a huge difference between a slut and a girl who just likes to have a good time.
Yeah, the slut wont make you pay at the end. Joking aside, all the double standards in today's society are asinine. I love how some dudes call all the girls they deal with a slut for no obvious reason, then they go out and sleep with the skankiest girls.
Well dicks don't get worn out, pussies do. So that could be one reason. And I also read somewhere that it's a lot more easier for girls to contract STD's than it is for guys, so that could be another reason. But if you're a girl and you think that this double standard is bullshit, then you shouldn't be ashamed if you get around. You shouldn't be ashamed to call yourself a slut.
I don't think women should be ashamed for sleeping around, but maybe we should call women like that "players" as well, instead of sluts.
Another thing I just thought of, is that generally it's a lot more easier for girls to get sex than it is for guys. If I went to a club and a fine girl approached me wanting to have sex with me, I would definately do it ("safely" of course), and I'm sure most guys would too. But if it was the other way around, and a guy approached a girl wanting to have sex with her, it wouldn't work. He would have to "work" for it, whereas girls just have to say "yes", you see what I'm saying? So when a guy has sex with a girl it's more of an accomplishment.
SPEAKING OF DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!^^^^^^^^^^^^ When a guy has sex with a girl, it's "more of an accomplishment" to a misogynist, maybe, but I see two people equally involved in an act that is only described as "successful" if it is mutually beneficial, on equal terms. Human sexuality must be understood to be appreciated, the thrill of bringing pleasure to another is universally satisfying, and when that principle is applied, you'd be surprised how much fun it is when you stop playing the game as if it has winners or losers. Labels suck, after all! Sex is for both parties to enjoy, and if done correctly, does not have any winners or losers, only cummers and cummers again. There is no better way to spend an evening!
I call girls sluts all the time, but shit, I love sluts! Sluts are always lettin me nail them! Here's a question I would like someone to answer: What in the world is wrong with being a slut???
I think this is real life we're talking about... It's all about competition. Boys are raised to compete, girl's aren't... as females are gaining a share in the economy and in academics and such I think we will see a shift in heterosexual relationship dynamics...we're experiencing a shift toward equality.
ive seen girls as bad as guys when it comes to just getting with whoever is around. both parties are guilty, and i think saying things like for guys its an accomplishment is wrong, its just the way it is. males naturally want to spread the seed, as it is men who carry the seed and have to technically in the animal world, compete to spread it. so, there you go, pretty simple stuff. most normal men will have sex with a hot girl that comes up to them because its strait up animal lust, women dont do this because its not in their nature. they want their child to be raised and to be healthy, thus do not want to be abandoned. as far as i have ever read, humans are one of the only species that have sex for pleasure, so, its safe to say that we probably are just as animalistic as any other being on this planet, we just have the choice to not be.
Girls can sleep around if they want.. but I would never get with a girl like that. Honestly I don't think anyone should fuck a lot of people, why can't you just meet someone you like and fuck them a lot instead of getting std's and a bad reputation. Nobody likes sluts or players, unless you're talking about a music video.
When I said it's more of an accomplishment, that's because the guy has to "work" for it while the girl simply just has to say "yes". Unfortunately, there's lots of guys out there that pay girls (escorts/hookers) for sex, why do you think that is? Have you ever heard of a girl paying a guy for sex? I've never heard of guy escorts/hookers. And I never said it was an accomplishment, I said it was more of an accomplishment, it's a metaphor.
I know some female players But I like Retroshark's above explanation... I think that about sums it up
Define the word "gigolo". Heidi Fleiss, the former Beverly Hills Madam, is opening a brothel for women in the town of Mesquite, Nevada. She expects to make a killing! I'm sorry, but you need to get out more often, and stop telling yourself it's someone else's fault that you can't get any.