i can cull a person who has been a source of nothing but sadness from my life... one of the fakest, most unappealing people I know, who consistently hurts me, and yet, she is essentially my best friend, and i recently got over a pretty strong crush on her (love is blind.... i couldnt see the true her), she has a boyfriend... or i can pretend like nothing is wrong and just... be there and not care... love everyone and all that jazz im going for the culling myself... idk.. i tried.
if it hurts you to be around this person it's not unfair to separate yourself. no reason to be rude or anything, just maneuver yourself out of there
yep, sounds to me like both your spiritual evolutions perhaps would b better served with a period of abstention from each other. but who knows, thats going on limited information. it's all lessons for us wherever we go, just matters if we're paying attention to the lesson within the eventing in our living.
fixed i say.. blaze and think about it. talk to the person. you will end up making some sort of decision or finding out something true that will help you.
i've been in the exact same position twice now i've found that its just easier to move on i wouldn't recommend a complete break but you need to get over the fact that she doesn't like you no matter how much it seems like she does, if after this amount of time she still hasn't told you she never will and will continue to lead you on if you just go outside and smell the air im sure you can find someone that does like you remember bro putting yourself in the right position is the hardest part once you actually get over her and mix with new people the rest will come very easily
if you haven't made your decision yet, I would say to find yourself, and then the person won't be able to cause you sadness. Do not cull the person, you'll just regret it... ESPECIALLY because you had a crush on her. but i'm probably to late. I just did what you were thinking about. And really made myself sorry... just remember... hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
im in the same situation. all i can tell you is forget about her and do what makes you happy. make your life better and dotn stress over her. im in your shoes and i finally started handling it right. get YOUR life to be as perfect as you can, then she'll pop up later. thats how it works. then you fuck her and dip on her like she hurt you. DONT fall back in love, just remember how many times she did you dirty. use this to become a mac, dont be a soft ass ***** that shes gonna walk all over. when you dont give a fuck, they do. FOLLOW MY WORDS MAN I KNOW!!!
yeah man he knows. you'll get that girl any way you want her if you resist taking the bait... Act like you have a secret and she'll be all over you like white on rice. But be the bigger man in the end and treat her how you wish she would treat you right now.
damn,,, good to hear you guys have been through this before... some damn good advice here lol and ya, i think all i can do is just,, keep going, let what happnes happen... i just dont care anymore lol
dont just keep going you'll all ways feel like she might want you move on and if she does she'll let you know