Are you going to tell them about weed? or just hope they find out about it later? or maybe even discourage them using it. Im still undecided about whether telling him or letting him find out about weed on his own. But I really would like my son to at least expeience a high once in his life. P.S. I dont have a kid yet.
When I have kids, I would probably let them discover it on their own. I also wouldn't care if they did it as long as they didn't do it all the time, and it didn't affect their grades.
Ill be a toker dad prolly. ill smoke my kid up and shit this only if he starts smoking on his own, else imma toke on my own
yea i will let my child find out about it on his or her own and then make sure they dont make it a habit or get themself in trouble or broke. i think this way would be better for all parents to do to be able to trust your child and not have them doing even more risky things to smoke and hide it from you.
Thats how I feel. I would be cool with them smoking (Not like everyday or at school or anything). I just don't want to be one of those parents who smoke who are hard on their kids about it.
kids are gonna experiment but im gonna explain the consequences (lawful) to my kid no matter what and personally i don't want my kid smoking till their at least 18 or in college. none of this hs smokin, they can wait.
I'll let them discover it on their own. But I'm going to be the "cool" parent so to speak. Not to the point where they can get away with anything they want, but more of the parent who they can actually come to for advice and such. If my kid does smoke pot, then that's fine, as long as I can see that it's not negatively affecting their life. I would rather have them smoke at home than some place else. I'm not a parent yet; far from it actually, but I know that parenting isn't going to be a walk in the park. You have a child and you basically direct this child's life so to speak. Fucked up people are probably fucked up thanks to their childhood. So you definetly need to know what you're doing.
Id like for my kids to come to me about it. If they wanted to know about smokeing id tell them that i smoked quite a bit when i was younger, but that i was responsible, i lived on my own, i always smoked at home or at friends place quietly. And i never made it a priority, i smoked when i could and be ok. I wont tell them i blazed before work.
im going to chop they're pinky fingers off. nah but on the real, when i catch him smoking in the house (i'll smell it) im gonna act like im pissed,then smoke him out.
When i have kids, i would want them to find it by themselves. I will probably be a smokin dad anyways haha but don't want to introduce them to it when they are young. I'd be supportive of them smoking, as long as it doesnt interfere with school and all that
ill let them find out on their own... be stern with them about it but let them know that i had my fair share of experiences with it and who knows i might still be smoking then? maybe even light up a bowl or 5 with them who knows though life unfolds itself in mysterious ways
i'm thinking i'm gonna let them figure it out on their own, and like homeboy said, i'll catch them eventually, act real pissed, take their shit, and then roll a blunt and smoke that shit in the living room. If the kid's smart enough to try to come talk to me about it, then the kid'll get smoked out. i'm thinkin 16 is when i'll allow it, provided the rest of their life stays in order. I'll treat it like driving. it's a privalege, and when you get out of line, you lose your privaleges. hopefully i'll have a good enough relationship with my kid that he/she will respect what i tell them. I know i do with my parents, whether i agree or not.
I will let him find out on his own but once he does find out I will be right there toking away with him.
I don't have no kids but my dad smokes it I guess he hid it from me but when i was about 13 or 14 i started to smoke myself and i kinda started to figure out myself because he would go out the back shed and be in there for a while and thats what i would do to but i could never prove it till he told me when we were out in the pub when i was 16 then he started to toke up with me was sweet felt kinda weird tho smokeing with me dad fer first time but now its sweet I guess i would do this to cause from experience i grew up mature enough with weed its not a priority for me really about once a night after school and all when i can just sit and chill and have nothing else to worry about doing but during weekend its completely different ill toke when i get the chance unless i have something important to do.
I really don't think weed is such a "bad thing". I'm planning on my kid doing a little experimenting like I did and still am doing. I will definitly be there for him/her when they have questions about anything. And maybe if my kid decides to be a stoner around the age of 18....then maybe I'll stop tryin' to hide it from em and toke up with em. Who knows...if my kidz cool enough, he might even be able to grow with daddy. LOL
Im not going to hide it or anything, i will smoke openly in the house (not when they are young though) But if they ask, i will tell, or i will tell them anyway when they get to an age they can understand, i will also ask if they want to try it, i will not force it on them, but i reckon it will happen, as there father smokes weed, there grandparents and there aunty...