Hey GC...advice please. I broke up with my gf back in June. We were together for just about 2 years. I spent my best and worst time with this girl..she took my v-card..first girl I ever really "loved" you could say. The day I broke up with her I had no feelings for her. I really wanted out.. I need space. I told her that when school started maybe we could see where things were and go from there. She persisted to text me/call me sometimes and it seemed to prolong my healing. I really ended up missing her over the summer, but I didn't let her know til we got back to school. She said she missed me too, but had tried to move on, which I understood. For months I used to wake up and the first thing I would think about is her, and how I wish I had her back. I know I can't have her back though, so I've blocked her on facebook and changed my phone #, cutting her off with all communication. I didn't tell her I was doing this I just did it... ..maybe I'm too nice...I feel bad and wonder sometimes if this was the right thing to do. I do find other girls attractive and have a number of "crushes" so maybe all I need to do is just be myself and wait for another girl that will blow me away like she did. Gah. Anyone have similar trouble?
Just be glad that you were able to find someone that you liked enough to go out with for 2 years. If you really are over her, I suggest making friends and persuing your crushes. June was a while back, so I think you are ready. You be the judge of that and go get em tiger
Sooner or later we all go through something like that. In my opinion, the most important thing is to get yourself back to being happy just being yourself, I find that when I get there, the girls just kind of take care of themselves.