What does that mean to you? Guys what does it mean when a chick your banging says that? Ladies when your having sexy girl talk and ya friend says she was messing with someone and she came, what does that mean to you?
Asking bc I recently found out that my definition of cumming is not the same as some of my friends lol. If I said I came, Im saying I had an orgasm. To them orgasm n cumming are separate things that sometimes happen together. I was SO surprised by this!!! Orgasm is the vaginal muscle contraction that feels euphoric, while cumming is either "female ejaculation" or a surge of vaginal lubrication/secretions. Now that they've made this distinction I feel so bad for them!!!! Majority of the time they are cumming but not O-ing!!! I wouldn't even have sex anymore if I had as many failed attempts (a session where I don't orgasm) as they do. Like what's the pt?
Well it feels different when you squirt. You're still cumming though. You can feel the orgasm, but squirting just adds something to it so Id say they are the same thing. For me at least...
yeah i see what youre saying. makes sense, but no they are saying they ejaculate or have a fluid gush without orgasm Im like what???
Yeah, Im used to coming, orgasming however is a rarity. Why keep doin it? Cause its sex and still feels pretty damn good!! lol
