Whats my problem?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by the_outsider, May 23, 2010.

  1. As long as i can remember ive always kept my feeling inside and never really expressed them to people. This is the reason ive never really had a relationship, even though ive had some chances. And now there is this new girl who i like and i know she feels the same. But lately i feel like im pushing her away because im not letting her in. For example the other day i wasn't in the greatest mood and she kept asking what was up, and i just kept saying nothing, even though there are a ton of things on my mind. I don't know why its so hard to talk to people sometimes, i don't know what my problem is.
    sorry for the rant, just needed to get it off my chest.
  2. I don't know what you're asking for and this is definitely just a rant. You know your problem, you don't open up emotionally to people. The reason for this is only known by you and I'm sure you do. If you want to keep this girl then your going to have to begin sharing with her. Speak your mind, say one thing and the rest might come out. Just take the first step and let the rest flow. You know what you have to do, so do it.
  3. You should try getting things off your mind with her. I know it's tough, but she seems like a person you could share things with, and that would be great practice for other social situations too.

    Just sit down someplace quiet and try to open up a little. I know it's hard, but if you can just do a little, the rest will take care of itself. Good luck

  4. Exactly.
  5. well you know the problem...and the solution. you just need to put it into action.

    opening up a lil doesn't hurt.
    if it make's you feel better you don't have to tell her the major problems that go thru your mind, only the lil thoughts that bug you.
    atleast so she doesn't feel like your pushing her away for now, over time opening up won't be so difficult.
  6. Yea man, you gotta just think about how we are all humans and go through a lot of the same shit everyday.

    I am the same way as you are a lot of the times, but I know in some situations I need to speak up, and I just do it, without thinking so that I don't back out last second.

    Awesome sig by the way.. love that fucking song!

    "Takes a long time, but god dies too, but not before he sticks it to you."
  7. You think if she knew you more she wouldn't get you. I feel that way sometimes man, but fuck it, ya know...

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