And that your wife of 10 years cheated. Shits fucked man. I would probably divorce but still talk to the kid. reddit story: Found out that the 9yo I've been raising is not my son... : AskReddit
OP, you would probably disown him, right? LEBOWSKItheBIG: What's the matter, son? Son: I just spilled my cereal. LEBOWSKItheBIG: I HAVE NO SON!
Never talk to the bitch again. It'd crush the kid to leave him so I'd still be a part of his life. But definitely would never talk to the cuntbitch ever again
Same. I'd remain buddies with the kid but I wouldn't have shit to do with that woman ever again. How someone could lie to a father (about the child) and to the child (about the father) is some cruel dirty fucking shit. That bitch deserves to be hung and lit on fire.
I would still take care of the kid. I mean, after 9 years of loving the kid you can't just walk out on him. Just my $.02
Yes! I'm finally free. FREEEEE! (Flails arms while running away) No, I don't really know what I would do. I'd say keep the kid and kick the bitch to the curb, but the kid doesn't need the stress of his parents divorcing if he's having a tough time medically.
Well depends...Kids always come first. If i wasnt the dad of the kid id still treat it like my own but ditch the bitch raise the kid to be "BAD" then say here..
this is really hard to say. After 9 years of attachment, I could never see my self prying myself away from a kid. But I could also see the world turning into a very very dark place and could consider taking the easy way out. I feel so bad for that dude. Seriously... 17years they were together? Thats some straight up thundercuntery from that chick.
If that guy's situation was combined with my own, I could guarantee you I would not be breathing right now. Sucks bad for the guy, I feel for him.
Idk how that woman can be so nonchalant about all of it, the way he described her, she seemed to of just shrugged it off "Oh I was just feeling adventurous, something out of routine" Uh.... go hiking or something you dumb fucking bitch! I can feel for him though, I hope he doesn't feel like he has to stay with her to be able to be close to his son... Truthfully if I were him, I would take her to get a lie detector test done to see if she cheated after that time, if she didn't, I would tell her to never ever do that shit to me again then try to repair myself from that damage... and this is only bc the kid isn't biologically his so I'm pretty sure he couldn't go to court to even try to get weekends or anything from the crazy lady... and I probably would never be the same with her if I was him. That's fucked up. I bet if he never got sick, she would of never told him...
"You got pregnant with another dude and pretended the kid was mine? Well I'm gonna give you a stern talking-to, that'll teach ya"
Well, I mean, I'm sure if it truely happened I wouldn't be so....easy with it Lolll... I'm sure it would be a big ass huge fight, I'd prolly even stay somewhere else awhile fuck idk This is a hard situation, I'm a female so I'll never have to have a shitty surprise like this guy got, although I hope cheating never happens to me again
some babies needs a momma,,,, instead of a incubator. most '' real'' men dont have to be taught on how to be a daddy.... but they need to print a instruction manual for some chicks ive been in contact with.