Okay...a long time ago i decided that i wanted to stay a virgin until i got engaged. it was never that big of a deal to me before. if i had a chance to lose it, i'd tell the girl how i felt bout sex and i got something else instead . anyways, now i've hit the time where all of my friends are becoming sexually active, and i don't know if i should stick with it or not. like, just a few days ago my best friend screwed a girl i used to like A LOT, and i found myself feeling jealous. does this mean that i really do want to have sex?? I don't know how to feel, i'm being pulled in both directions and i don't know whether i should stick w/it or not. i mean, i have a descent # of people to lose it to if i wanted. I'm feeling really tempted, and i'm kind of torn mentally. i'm usually very idealistic, so it's hard for me to change a belief i had. Which way should i go, or what should i do? does anyone have any advice? has anyone out there waited and have any words for me to help me out? thanks everyone, i'm so torn.....
Man... ermmm.... first time having sex isnt usually the best.. worrying bout the girl thinking you aint good or worrying that you mess up or worrying your momma gonna bust in the door lol, well girls think the same stuff man, they dont want your momma or theirs busting in the door, they dont wont you thinking they got small boobs(is that the best word to use? lol) or they aint good and prolly atleast 1/2 guys i bet first time hoping the girl dont think they got a small package lol. but on the forreal lol, i prolly just got you nervous... but really its up to you man, hold true to your feelings... i think its time for me to call this chick up ... aint even like that though, i just like chilln and talkn with her, but if it comes it comes. everyone is gonna get theirs soon enough, but yo man... yea like dude said, its up to you just hold true to your feelings and dont let no one pressure you... haha gl man
Youll know when its right man. My advice, if your planning on staying a virgin, dont go out drinking. You will get the beer goggles on and it might be all over.
for the people out there that didn't wait, did you think you made the right decision? i mean, if you could go back change it, would you?