So I used to trade trees for money haha.. I had topshelf shit from Cali and CO, and had mad business. I fronted quite a few times and people always payed me back..until this one asshole. So I have no idea why I trusted this dude but I did, he's a ghetto black guy.. I'm not racist but he is and that's how I see him. Still, I thought he was a cool guy and was an acquaintance of mine, got me custys and smoked me up in the past. One day he wanted a front on a 20 sack. I was very hesitant. But I eventually came through for him. And for a while I kept calling him and he'd rarely answer. When he did answer, he'd say I'm at work and I get off at _ o' clock... but then when he "got off of work" he wouldnt answer my texts or calls and was pretty much being a lil bitch. This was a couple months back, and since then I have visited him at his residence and he had more bullshit to tell me. I lost his number when I did a reset on my phone, but it doesn't make too much of a difference. I'm not sure what to do. I've thought about the following: -Egg his car -keep coming back to his house and tell whatever family member of his that I can that he owes me money that I lent him (just a lil white lie), and try to pressure him into giving me my money that way -throw a rock/key his car the only thing I can't do is kick his ass cuz I'm a chick and although I have fight in me, I really don't think I could take him if he hits back which he probably will. also not sure if I can damage his car cuz he knows what my car looks like and although he doesn't know where I live, our neighborhoods aren't that far away (bout a 1/2 mile or less) So does anyone have any suggestions? I can't just drop this shit, I'll feel like weaksauce if I do that and if I let it go it means he got away with it. Fellow GCers, guys and gals, help me think up some sweet revenge
haha there's no way it can get THAT bad especially not on the street in broad daylight.. like I said I'm a fighter so I'll only fight if I have to and Im sure I could at least get myself out of a situation like that even if I can't kick his ass.. he's not a big black guy he's like 19 and skinny
From experience, your in a slightly better position than most, being a chick... wasnt expecting that, people (here in the UK anyway) typically dont hit girls (or suspect them of selling) so yeah, i would pile on the pressure... if he doesnt respond, i would get together some hard nuts, and go round there basically, you dont want to start no wars, just reclaim whats yours. Best of luck, I hate these tricky situations that we're sometimes put in.. happens in all business, trust me. If you know where he lives etc, he just needs to see youve got friends you can call on.
Well, site policy is we can't encourage violence so as usual, I can't give you proper advice. If you are a girl and are able to get physical, take it as a lesson learned. Just my .02 cents.
Over a 20$ bag? Why waste your time and effort? edit; I guess if its 20g but that'd be rather a large amount. Not sure whether you're referring to the first or second 20
If you let someone steal from you, word gets around and all of a sudden everybodies stealing from you. It's not just about the money ya know.
True, but sometimes it's not worth it to escalate the situation. If you got burned don't front again. If you get straight up robbed time to take a look and see if you are cut out for being a "dealer".
first 20. for my pride. Yeah, I was making pretty good $ so I don't NEED the measly 20 but I do need the pleasure of knowing he didn't get away with it now all I gotta do is find a way to get him back.. with our without my $20
But you learn from it, and don't repeat the same mistake a second time. ie not to front. However, OP seemed to be talking in the past tense, so presumably there is no more need to front people for anything. I guess, I just have more important things to do than worry about what damage has been done to my RL 'rep'. Like that stuff really matters? What are we, 10?
I don't deal.. anymore... and if I did I wouldn't ever front again but the fact that this dude thinks I'm stupid and he's smarter than me pisses me off. I'm not stupid, just a nice person. Well, before someone does wrong to me, that is. He's a neanderthal and deserves what's coming to him, whatever that may be. In my mind, he escalated the situation by not simply paying me back. So it's all HIS fault.
over a $20 bag??? i thought you were talking 20 zs lol... forget about it id say. tell him hes a wanker and be done with it.
Your pride is worth $20 bucks? It's 20 bucks, get over it and never deal with him. Lesson learned not to front.
Either OP can learn a lesson about fronting, or he can learn a lesson not to steal from people, get it?
Mate I can honestly say I'm too stoned to read your first post and it looks really boring and long. But heres my generic advice since you had quite a lot of question marks and exclamation marks in your first post: 1) Dont do it 2) Shes not worth it 3) Dont smoke weed ever again 4) Walk out of your house 5) Kill yourself
Thats what all of u damn dealers deserve(suffer).Selling for a rediculous prices marijuana,even tho it should be for free.
Yeah OK, I guess I should have referred to the form of expression 'one would' or 'you'd' but I wasn't referring to you in particular... One should learn lessons about fronting; not to do it in the first place...
You pay $20 to never have to see this guy again. It's a hell of a price to get rid of someone, let it go.