Ok so brief info I'm 5'9 180 I used to be 5'9 205 I played football so I was bulky. I understood that I looked scary at the time to some people well last night I was hanging with some friends and this girl said I was scary. I rock carhartts timberlands and jeans alot of the time. She said I look like a thug and she would be intimidated by me if we were on the street. It didn't stop there they said I have a dominant presence in the room? What makes that. I was thinking because I have black hair and brown hair helped but that couldn't be all? This is for my curiosity real answers would be appreciated.