i'm 24 (soon 25) and my first gf broke up with me 2 months ago and I have no one now as I have no friends but i keep busy, I work, volunteer, work on my car study for my lawschool exam. anyways..... On facebook there is this girl I went to highschool with (7 years ago) and I bumped into her in university once also (we went to teh same university) but we never were friends nor talked or whatever. I asked for her number 2 years ago when I bumped into her in university but for some reason I never called her (my social anxiety). we are both out of university now. she is going travelling, backpacking across europe this summer. anyway i've had her on facebook for a year now she added me. I have no real friens so no one ever really posts anything on my facebook page but she has commented on a bunch of my status updates adn asked me hows it going etc. 2 days ago I just posted on her page saying "happy birthday" cus it was her birthday. now I got a private message saying thanks, I haven't seen you in 7 years I think we should get together for lunch to catch up . thing is I was never friensd with her in highschool but i had a feeling she liked me in highschool. I was at a party in the last year of highscchool and I was drunk and stoned and I remember she wanted to smoke weed with me even though she doesn't really smoke weed. also on her facebook page it says "in a relationship" but it doesn't say with who. based on this do you think she just wants to have lunch with me to make friends? we were really never friends or anything in highschool so I have a feeling she likes me. when I bumped into her in university she also gave me her number. I'm just curious as if she likes me as a friend or more. I don't really care. I don't mind making friends I have zero friends right now. it'd be nice making a friend. also what should I respond to her message? Ihaven't responded yet. I was thinking of just saying yeah that's cool, here is my number we can go for lunch sometime like next week i'm off on fridays and weekends. or whatever.