So yesterday i met this girl at school (im a senior) and i walked her to thebus stop after school. Then as soon as i left she texted my friend asking for my number so we texted for like an hour and made plans to see each other this morning to "play PS3". So we got to my house went to my room played mortal kombat for like 20 minutes then i leaned in and kissed her, we started making out and things were getting hot, (literally i felt like i was on fire lol) so i take her shirt off, slip on a condom and she stops me and says she doesnt wanna be late for school and shit so i say alright maybe next time. Then she asks if we could be really good friends and i was like sure why not. And from there we went to school and pretended as if nothing happened (school starts at 1;30 pm) and thats basically it. So i need advice, was this girl just making an excuse to not have sex or do you guys think she was genuinly worried about being late? Thanks. im gonna see if she wants to chill on tuesday since theres no school and well see how it goes.
It sounds like she's not ready to have sex yet....ya know, since she's in high school. Slow down a bit and don't pressure her. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19. Kids these days....
Yup, she doesn't want you now because she thinks that's all your in it for. The real trick is, you not even show interest in sex for at least a few weeks of dating, def not this fast. They always jump ship when it happens this fast. however if you where just looking for some, just keep trying different girls, one will let you before she realizes... lol, messed up but true. If you actually like her, it won't matter.
Well she seems interested in you, but you may have just jumped ahead to far. Like going for the kiss, good move. After that, not so much. You just met her homie, and if all your looking for is sex, don't try it with a girl whose to shy to ask for your number.
Shes not shy because she approached me and introduced herself. And im definately sure she's ready to have sex because shes done it alot haha.
i just think it may have been too soon also, hopefully theres still a shot. Btw i dont really like this girl
This doesn't mean she isn't shy. My friend can approach girls, introduce himself, and have a conversation with them but can't ask for their numbers. He's shy about asking for the number, just like the girl was. She was clearly interested in you. You moved to fast though bro. Hell, maybe you just breezed over goin down on her. Point is, don't go straight for penetration.
You went too far man, shoulda just left it at the kiss/make out sesh. Too fast. Chill with her sometime soon and see how it goes, if it goes good then you should be good.
okay from what i know she is probably mentally preparing herself for "next time" because id be hella nervous if something so hot was happening in a spur of the moment with a guy i dont quite know or trust yet. She obviously wants to establish a connection with you in a way, so let her know you can be trusted and kind, when youre sure about this girl and you really like her and you want to go farther, let it happen, and she probably feels unsure and confused too so just flow with each other you know? dont overthink, things arent always what they seem! and hey, i may be wrong about everything.
Yeah hang out again, and just let things flooww Maybe she just didn't wanna be viewed as a slut the first time y'all were bout to bang b4 she made an excuse to dipp. Hang out again, see how it goes, if you don't get it on the second date, leave her. Unless you actually value her frienship. Then just enjoy that! Lol, that felt wierd typing.