if a friend of yours accused you of stealing something from him, but you didn't, and in reality its just some bullshit they have made themselves somehow believe, with no proof at all, or they smoked their shit themselves and forgot, therefore blaming me (this person smokes / drinks / other things a good bit)? Honestly, it happened a while ago. I told him i didn't do it and hardly took it serious because i have never stolen shit from anyone. He straight up just like told me i did it and didn't believe me (more than once) and then that's was it. We still chill, nothing has happened really, but it just pisses me off that he still thinks i took his shit and probably treats me differently or thinks shit about me based off false pretenses. Just wondering how others would react if accused of something by a friend, that you DID NOT do and aren't the type of person who would even do that thing, but your friend doesn't believe you.
Well what happens when the friend did steal something but defends that he didnt? Happened to me way to many times
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A buddy of mine once accused me of jacking a grand. He sat me down and said it was me, and I should know better. I was scum of the earth, and a bad person according to him. I told him straight up: I did not steal his money, yet he still accused me and said he was going to have a beastly chick beat the fuck out of me. I did not steal buddy's money. For all the awful things that he said to me that day, I will not forgive him and to this day have not spoken a word to him. He found out who did steal his money and I still not have received an apology yet. Too bad for him jumping to conclusions lost him a solid friend. I don't steal. I'm an adult, I have my own money and I would never stoop so low to take something of value from a best friend. His loss and your friend will realize the same.
The thing is, if he has been fucked over by people who he thought were close friend and they lied to him, fine, but to accuse a completely honest, respectable person with no proof, and no prior events / situations to warrant the accusation, then that's kind of fucked up. Yeah, i mean my other close friends are pretty good friends with him too, so the whole not being friends with him anymore thing wont work, i mean we hangout and have a good time pretty much always, but i feel like he is watching me or some shit to see if ima take something, or puts me in situations like im a thief and hes trying to catch me. I feel like there is just this weird undertone sometimes. But it is a shame, because this probably will keep us from being great friends. Like you said, i am also an adult, make my own money, and taking something of value from a friend(s) (who are important to me) would never cross my mind in the first place, let alone actually be carried out. So being accused, rubs me in a completely wrong way.
I would try to talk to him. Get rid of that negative vibe. Good friends are hard to come by. I really wish I could have worked things out with buddy in my situation, but were both stubborn fucks and time will tell.