What's up grasscity. I'm not the most experienced girl...in fact before last night I had only had sex 3 times, and all if those times it hurt to even have sex. So I hooked up with a mutual friend last night. He was pretty big and it took a while to get it completely in, but once it was in it felt great! I thought, finally! This is what everyone is talking about! But then he came. I dunno maybe I was too tight so he came too quick? Or am I just hard to please? Or maybe it will get better the next time? Im really confused cause this guy fucks a lot and is super experienced. Can someone give me some insight because he's really hot but...the sex was eh.
um, yeah some guys may have a lot of sex but that doesn't mean he can last. My wife and I have sex anywehre from 10 minutes to 30 minutes (after that she gets sore). I have learned to wait to blow. he needs to warm you up some more, get you going some more. he sounds like he sucks in the sack yo
Could be a mixture of things. yeah, maybe you're really tight. maybe he was just overthinking and got nervous etc. maybe he's just not that great in the sack.
[quote name='"stonerchick1990"']maybe hes liked you for ages & got over excited[/quote] That happened to me with a chick I wanted to get with for like 2 years.... finally got my chance and just couldn't handle it :/ So embarrassing
Not a girl myself - but have had a lot of sex (mostly with my wife). I don't have that issue either, I've got the other issue, taking too long to orgasm. That's what you need to find...usually it's guys who masturbate a lot
thats me, but i dont masturbate a lot...if i did i think i would never cum lol. i literally can fuck a girl for 3 hours straight and never cum. sometimes it sucks.
It happens sometimes, not much you can do about it really. Also if there was a lot of foreplay in the build up, that might be the reason.
See for YEARS of being a bachelor yeah my dick is desensitized. So...yeah...it takes a while. My wife is happy though
thus the reason why i think this guy is a dud in the sack. i wouldn't give him a chance and when he persues you again tell him he was a lousy lay I can orgasm fast on top and last all night on bottom with wife on top. so we usually start with me on top for a while, then switch when i am getting too close
with my ex i always put her orgasm before mine, i loved getting her to cum while i was licking her or inside of her. the times i came first i would at least go down and finish the job or until i was hard enough to go for round 2. id do that for any girl i was screwing. the guy sounds kinda selfish and doesnt know how to give like a good lover does.
That defining moment where you throw your hands up and say "Fuck this shit im going back to porn" lol just have him warm you up a bit more. I personally KNOW i cum quick so i spent like 20+ minutes eating the girl out getting her off, i LOVE that shit lol.
[quote name='"stonerchick1990"']maybe hes liked you for ages & got over excited[/quote] No I don't think so... [quote name='"PNWChr0nic"']Don't underestimate a super tight V[/quote] Lmfaooooo [quote name='"iweartshirts"'] the guy sounds kinda selfish and doesnt know how to give like a good lover does.[/quote] Yea I had that thought too but I dunno. It wasn't like he was rushing me out the door after. Actually we just kinda sat there high as fuck and not saying anything for a while....it was really awkward