well i'm at my all time low...

fuck it dude

 

everyone has been through this, well except me of course.

but honestly tell her your feelings for her immediately after they break up. seems like they will cuz they dont seem right together. what i can tell from this post is that she likes you, but nothing happened because you chose to stay in the friend zone.

and if its done, u fucked it up. making cookies and watching porn? how about making babies and filming it and then watching that. she likes spending time with you, so why not take it to the romantic level. hopefully things work out.

usually a guy meets a hot chick and they chill a few times and the dude falls in love. but once ur having a porn cookie sesh she could be the one, and u dont want her to be the one that got away

 

shit sucks man. i feel this way too sometimes.

 

Maybe since you haven't tried making a move,she thinks you're not interested in her like that?

Maybe you should just put it all on the line and tell her how you feel.

 

sucks to hear that bro.

i'd just continue to ignore her, not in an asshole-ish way but a sad kinda way...i think she'll come around

 

Don't ignore her in a sad way. Show her you can do other shit.
Go out and have fun. HAVE A REASON TO IGNORE HER if you're going to ignore her.
That way even if nothing happens at least you're having fun.
She's using you as her friend and comforter when shit hits the fan, and then completely controls you. Let loose.

 

THIS!
Acting sad isn't going to attract her in the least.If anything it's going to turn her off!That's like some highschool,Brittany Spears bullshit.

 

Thats seriously the 'best' thing you can do.
I'd go with that.

Because you are VERY much friend zoned.
And as we all kind of know, girls don't like them sweet guys.
They need a dickhead, literally.

Also that you guys never really even touched eachother... Is a big red flag as to how she feels about you.

Still, now, you should do what Berzerker said.
Otherwise you'll never really know.

 

^exactly.what would be worse;possibly ruining your friendship that is already making you miserable OR never knowing what might have been?

It's like this:either she's going to respond to it well and maybe something will come out of it.Or she'll turn you down and if she does that she should atleast still be your friend,but if not then that just goes to show that she wasn't a good friend in the first place and you aren't really missing out on much.

then one day she'll realize how much of a douche this other guy is and she missed out on someone who's legit and she'll regret it and come begging you to bone her brains out.just a thought.

 

Yup.

 

Fuck that shit man, life's tough.. People make mistakes though

Keep your head high and smile, meditate and smile whilst yogi, smile harder when you laugh. Soak in life, the ups and downs are both beautiful in their own ways

And how can you appreciate the ecstasy of shmex without ever gettin it first? plus, it's college and there's a shit ton more ladies in the world my man

 

I think an all time low would be that moment when you're lying in a gutter after being violently raped by a pack of transvestites outside a needle exchange, on a rainy Wednesday night.

 

Trust me, we've mostly all had this happen with ourselves.
I for one, speaking from experience.

Chick did the exact same thing to me, was best friends or VERY good friends with her for like 2 years, and I began having feelings for her. We would hang out almost every day or whenever possible ya know. She also lived down the street from me, so it was very easy to chill. 8 months later of trying to get somewhere with her, I decided to tell her how I felt. I did, her response:

'Oh.'
I found out she hooked up with a guy like maybe a week before, and that they were 'dating'. Proceeded to tell her I cant have her as my friend anymore, etc.

However, I never told her the reason why. I left that up to her to find out. Its been a good 7 months since that little encounter, and we still see eachother. I do miss her, I will admit. But I have definitely changed a bunch of priorities in life, and gained a good amount of confidence as well.

I know how you feel though. You explained the emotions perfectly. You could forgive and never forget, thats what I did. Just let time go, hang with friends, and try not to see her as much like in my scenario, cause the fact I see her almost everyday of the week is what keeps my mind thinking of her sometimes. Otherwise, I would be in a way better emotional state.

Best of luck man, I know the pain, feel better.

 

So you missed out on mutual love with a girl you were crazy about because you were too chicken shit to take action. Even after all the chances..


Yeah it happens to a lot of people, happen to me once.


move the fuck on is all you can do.
it will hurt more and more the longer you stay in this state of mind

 

Could be worse. Like: you could allow yourself to keep being second string to some girl who like douchers.

I don't know man, I'd tell her what's up and if she's not down then I'd just kinda dip. Sounds like you made yourself too available and got placed in her 'friend' category a long time ago. If she's not it, then on to the next one.

 

WOW ive been through that before

sucks ass

makes you feel like you just wanna lay down and die

ive learned that you gotta tell her how you feel cant just send her telepathic messages about how much you care for her (from my experience girls never get them )

you also gotta have sexual tension that is what makes a relationship start... but i see you guys watch porn together

but when her heart is broken once again help her pick up the pieces and when shes not emotionally compromised ease into telling her how you feel

REMEMBER once you tell her there's NO going back to being friends...

 

sounds like a dumb girl like most ofem