I'm cracking up here but I think the moral is to not over think it. Just throw it on him. Waking a man up to a hummer is a sure thing. I cant deny it. Im a fucking rider.
Hard to do that with a 3 month old & working the schedule we do. Most of the time when we have a chance to just do it, baby needs feeding, changed, or is just fussy & if it’s not our sweet boy it’s just having to be an adult & not having the time.
I will give you a man's point of view. We feel pressured to be the one that spices things up or initiates sex. A man is thrown off his game and frankly turned on by a woman's sexual aggression. Just giving you a tip. Go in there and fuck that man! And not fingers in the butt. This would turn me completely off. A man's butthole is sensitive. My girlfriend can't even touch my butt or I jump.
Forget all those love movies. Men aren't that creative. I just finished breaking down a pound of afghan kush and northern lights #5 and dropped it in front of my girlfriend and said "would you rather I get you some roses?" She said "hell no, this is just fine!" If we actually plan something and it falls into place we feel like we just made the biggest heist in history. The Italian job
i’d take Smoke over roses any day! i’m not thinking about the love movies, i’m Just thinking about what our sex life was like before I had a baby. I just know what him & I are capable of doing in the sheets & lately it’s just little quickies & neither of us are really enjoying it like we should & could. That’s why I’m overthinking this & why I plan on buying the lingerie & suggested porn for us to watch & even try some out.
Plan ahead. Make a firm day and time to have intimate time with each other. Pick a night where both of you can anticipate ahead of time what's going to happen. I'm sure your kid isn't awake 24 hrs a day. My wife and I have a Saturday night ritual - get high, watch porn, and have wild jungle sex. Fortunately, both my wife and I are totally uninhibited in any way - nothing is off limits as long as it's pleasurable. My advice to you on how to spice up your life is to be as dirty as you can - all men like sluts in the bedroom.
Tip 1 from a simple kinda man. I don't watch porn because when I'm horny .. I want my girl. If he's jacking it to porn. Get sexied up for him, or even just come home and toke up and go to town. He won't want porn when you're DTF. Idk sex for me's an intimate thing. I've had my share of sex with my ex after we decided to just be friends or hit each other up for a booty call and it wasn't shit compared to the sex I get irregularly from the love of my life. Just my 2 cents Sent from my Moto G (4) using Tapatalk
Nope we don't need porn to get us horny for eachother lb vs when my husband and I decide to make love it's usually a random thing that starts off with forplay. Except for a some occasions when he wanted to be romantic. Btw I am soon to have 3 kids an idon,t think that really matters. We still find time to kick it with just us 2. Do you tho if it takes porn to make sex exciting then have fun with it lol best of luck. Welcome to GC Tho its great to have you here! ~Toni~
This thread is a bit old but I'll reply whenever I'm with a woman I don't need porn full stop. I'm not dating right now so I'll admit I do use it.
Watching porn together can be fun. It can be a fun thing you two can do together, finding new stuff that you might like, discover new fetishes, etc. Porn should be more just one of the way to make sex life exciting, but not the only one.