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watching porn as a couple

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by iblowmary, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. hello fellow tokers!
    Here's the situation: my boyfriend & I have been dating for over a year, since we began dating I had stopped watching porn because in my eyes I felt as if it was disrespecting my SO. well, he on the other hand disagrees & has continued to watch porn multiple times a week.. i recently had a baby & honestly felt like I wasn't doing it for him anymore, but now that I'm feeling a bit more confident in my body again, I want to spice some things up & had thought about purchasing some lingerie & suggesting finding a porno to watch together. (Seeing how having a kid is a MAJOR turn off & cock block 98% of the time). Anyways, I was curious if anyone on here has any tips or if watching porn with your SO is a turn on, does it make the other feel bad, etc. of course, I'm always open to more tips of how to spice some things up
     

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  2. I always like the idea of just bringing your SO to an adult store, just being in there with your SO starts getting everything going from looking at all the possibilities around you and feels a little dirty being in there which adds to the fun. Then you guys can pick out a toy together maybe and browse the porns for something you both like, just keep in mind, your husband may be into some porn that may shock you a little, I know there is certain porn I like that I know my SO would possibly find extremely kinky, so just be prepared if you open up that can of worms!
     
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  3. I agree with the above. I'd also add that just the fact that you'd like to watch porn with your man is a great start. It would probably be good to pick up where you left off on the porn front, in terms of watching it with your dude. That way you'll be into it and if he's any kind of team player he'll be stoked about it even if it's not what turns his crank.

    I definitely agree that you might be opening pandora's box if you try watching what he watches. That said, you can ask him to put together some links of videos he likes for you both to watch. That way he can weed out the whole "miniature horse creampie gang bang" stuff, or at least ease you into it with something more mild.

    Personally I've always found the "lingerie purchased for the night" a bit forced. I don't know what his tastes are but sexiness in daily driver undies is of a turn on than the stuff that's only bought to be worn outside of clothes then it comes off right away anyway. I know other dudes feel different.

    A scene that would work into what you're thinking about could be something like...find a sitter, position yourself so that when your hombre comes home you're in bed/couch/wherever twiddling your bean to some porn and say "hey I've really been enjoying some of the videos I see in the browsing history (or whatever), could you come help me out?"

    Lastly, high 5 for making the effort. I know it's tough, I have three kids.
     
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  4. I have before, I usually don’t, but thats because I feel like my uhhh... preferences would scare the shit out of her:ey::confused_2:
     
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  5. I always thought the whole lingerie thing was too much as well, but he definitely enjoys it, so i do it for him.
    & i thought about positioning myself so he can walk in & find me, but i'm not sure how I'll be able to play that one off lol i'm an awkward person when it comes to this stuff & even more so since becoming a mom. & suggesting to watch porn together is definitely a first for me, which makes me suppppper nervous.

    & thank you for the effort part, we have one kid together. He'll be 3 on the 27th
     
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  6. Well awkward or not, he should be feeling lucky that you want to do that. My wife is about as anti-porn as it gets so it's cool to read about someone such as yourself trying to give it a shot. I say just dive in, if you're feeling sexy and feeling it...he should dig it. Best to let the cat out of the bag...or as sex columnist Dan Savage says, "lay those kink cards on the table".

    Speaking of Dan Savage, definitely read his column and listen to his podcast. Some search capabilities.
    Podcast: Episodes | Savage Lovecast
    Column: https://www.thestranger.com/archive/savage-love
     
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  8. Threesome and black fishnet stockings
     
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  9. And a puppy
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  10. I will say this
    if that is you in your avatar and your man is not all over you everyday and night
    Something is wrong.
     
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  11. Lets not bring beastiality into this. That is for Europe. Lol

    Try toys OP or roleplaying. Shove a finger in his ass when you blowing him.
     
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  12. I agree I'd be all up in her every night like

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    :laughing::laughing:
     
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  13. i can't say I've always been on board with the whole porn thing. I especially wasn't when I was pregnant & up until about 2-3 weeks ago until I started to get my prepregnancy body back. But, since he still watches it, I looked some up & god did I miss watching porn & having some solo fun! So, I'm excited to try it together! & I definitely will look at some of his stuff. Thank you!
     
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  14. I live in England That's part of Europe & i don't fuck dogs :confused_2::laughing:
     
  15. Lol we've talked about the whole finger in his ass thing- he doesn't even want to try it, not sure I want to stick my finger in there anyways! I know how this man shits
     
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  16. I prefer porn alone because my SO likes shit I don’t


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  17. Porn is a decent suggestion OP, but not the answer.

    What men want OP is the dirt.. The Filth... I would explain it, but this legendary man will do it so much better and will make you laugh your ass off while explaining it perfectly.



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  18. Thanks man!
     
  19. Take turns picking videos based on what the other picks as a category.

    Example:

    You pick anal category. Then he takes turns picking videos for you with that category. Then he picks ebony DP category. Then you pick out videos from that category.
     
  20. Just got around to watching this. “Just piss in the floor next to him & walk away to do the dishes” :huh: haha
     
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