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Discussion in 'General' started by Stoooooner, Jul 3, 2006.

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  1. #1 Stoooooner, Jul 3, 2006
    Okay, well I met a cool girl at work this past week...we worked together and all was cool, Thursday a bunch of us went to the bars after work, it was a good time and I rode the train home with her since she goes to school in the town I live in. She's 21, I'm 20. She's pretty fucking hot..I'm uhh I don't know...well anyways on the way home somehow the topic of pot comes up during our drunken conversations and I tell her I have some in my car. She says she would love to smoke and I say sure...well she drives me to where my car was from the train station and I get it and we end up smoking at her place and hooking up...not sex but everything else..anyways we went to work together the next day and all's good.

    Yesterday was the last day of work for a while, (we only work on homestands) and anyways we went out to the bars again after the game, not for a long time but we hung out for a while, her me and one of her friends. While there she invites me to have dinner at her house with her friend and her mom. Hah well I go with her and her friend (they were already going) and eat some awesome ribs. I try to be decently social but I didn't want to make an ass of myself since I was kinda drunk. I think it went well...afterwards we came back to our town and smoked our brains out at another one of her friend's houses and the three of us watched Freeks and Geeks on DVD (lol). It was a heavy indica I had so she passed out from that plus alcohol I'm sure haha and I slept on another couch and now I just got home a few minutes ago.

    Well..I won't see her at work for a while since we're not back until July 14th. I said we should hang out sometime...she said definetely..only thing is she's at college, I'm home for the summer. Most of my friends are away so I don't have much to do...not many suggestions for places to chill or whatnot. She's one of those girls at school that has 350 facebook friends and stuff. I don't want to call her and not have any suggestions for places to go...(things would be different if I were at college..) I told her she can call me anytime she wants to hang out...drink, or get some food or something (I mentioned an awesome food place in our town known for wings and cheese fries). Her response was " hell ya mmm cheese fries" haha.

    Well I don't know if I should call her sometime this week or see if she calls me. She seems to be...uh..how do I say it, out of my league? Plus I can be kind of shy and don't want to sound like an idiot (trying to work on this) Yeah we hooked up but we were both pretty fucked up. I have no idea what she thinks of me really...prolly thinks I'm weird.

    Any suggestions blades?
     
  2. #2 Eyes, Jul 3, 2006
    Give it time, and just keep contact with her. I'm sure you'll figure this out dude.
     
  3. #3 ChRoNdoJah, Jul 3, 2006
    Hit That Shit Man
     
  4. #4 Nexis, Jul 3, 2006
    Don't make assumptions. You think she is out of your league but crazier shit has happened. trust me:wave:.
     
  5. #5 faeryamos, Jul 3, 2006
    wait like 4 days and call her~ girls like to be called- and ask her if she wants to go to the beach and have a little barbecue- maybe bring along another couple to keep things fun and light- bring a little mini grill and have a cooler filled with some kind of light cocktail and roll some j's ahead of time then later on you can be alone with her- but keep it light cause its new and then let her know u have fun with her and that you should go out just u and her next time- out to dinner or something;)
     
  6. #6 theHit, Jul 3, 2006
    act with confidence, my friend.
     
  7. #7 Stoooooner, Jul 3, 2006
    yeah. I'm gonna take it easy...call her weds or thurs maybe (well.. parents going out of town weds through saturday, maybe she'd want to come smoke at my house?) Who knows...even if nothing happens and we don't even hook up ever again I'm cool with it, cause she's a cool hot girl who loves to drink and smoke all the time. I could live with being friends with her... Only time will tell I guess, just wish I had more experience when it comes to girls
     
  8. #8 Fëanor, Jul 3, 2006
    You're in, man. If you make a move she'll go for it; it just doesn't sound like she's gonna do it for you. So go for it.
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  9. #9 bodom, Jul 3, 2006
    Get to know her more...hang out with her alot and have fun.

    Start flirting with her, try to make her laugh.
    Let her know your interested.
     
  10. #10 Stoooooner, Jul 3, 2006
    She just texted me "I'm bored" haha. Texting back and forth about random stuff...
     
  11. #11 ChRoNdoJah, Jul 3, 2006
    ^thats good right there cause you know shes thinking about you
     
  12. #12 aparker813, Jul 3, 2006
    a chick texted you with "i'm bored" usually translated to "ask me to go do something cuz i wanna hang out but i want you to ask me"
     
  13. #13 faeryamos, Jul 3, 2006
    right on the money with that one- and don't be a chicken just dooo it
     
  14. #14 Stoooooner, Jul 3, 2006
    yeah I did, she's moving to a new apt. today and I said I'd help her move stuff if she wanted...she says she'll probably take me up on that later..
     
  15. #15 CHRONIKKKK, Jul 3, 2006
    dude shez all urs

    jus act chill
     
  16. #16 Jackattack, Jul 4, 2006
    Just tell her to go ove rto your house again then put on a movie, smoke up, then bang her.
     
  17. #17 naughtyneighbor, Jul 4, 2006
    Fuck her!
     
  18. #18 metalstonerking, Jul 4, 2006
    I think you're definitely in with her and as a result a dirty dirty anus lover

    Just because I hate you

    And your luckiness :D
     
  19. #19 syntax13, Jul 4, 2006
    Just make sure the first thing yall move is the bed/couch. Less work for you.
     
  20. #20 XCLuSiVeSTiLo, Jul 4, 2006
    Good job man you are definetly in with that one. Do your thing stay confident and listen to everyone here. You never know man she may give you all the experience you need for the rest of you life along with some freaky puss haha. or she may be one you have forever. who knows just be yourself, be confident, and call her to talk
     
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