Torn Thoughts

Discussion in 'General' started by Gooseman, Oct 14, 2011.

  1. About a week ago, I was hanging out with some friends, including this one guy I knew for a while, but not very well. Seemed a nice enough guy, we all got smashed drunk at his place, but he was staying at my place for the last two days prior to the drinking.

    Turns out he is physically abused by his parents and he cannot do anything about it. He got completely wasted, saying his goal was to overdose on the alcohol. We stopped him, of course. Another person we were hanging with decided to bring him home, so everybody split ways.

    I went to A&W and got some food, finished it, and started walking home. On the way, I ran into said friend, him drunk as shit. I saw him in a scrap with another fellow, and decided it wasn't worth my time to get involved, so I just left... Or so I thought.

    Next thing I know, I get sucker punched right in the nose. He proceeded to try and get me to fight him. Blocked all his hits no problem, I'm not much for fighting. I asked what the hell is wrong and why he was assaulting me. He said this:

    "Everything is wrong, Gooseman. Everything!"

    So he was pulled off me, I wiped the blood from my nose, and went home. Luckily he didn't bruise or break anything, but even if he did I would still be thinking about this.

    I know he was drunk so he really didn't mean it, but I know that he did do it because he needed an outlet for the abuse he gets from his parents.

    So what I am having trouble with is this: I haven't seen him since, don't really want to right now. Apparently he has stopped drinking, which is good, but I don't know what I should do. Here are the options:

    1) Do jack shit, cut all contact.
    2) Be there as a friend, try and help him get away from the abuse he gets.
    3) Call Child Services on his parents, still cut contact with him.

    The guy is 4 years younger than me, and I want to be able to help. He is heading down a path of substance abuse I went down myself, and I don't want to see that happen to anyone.:(
     
  2. I think you should do "2) Be there as a friend, try and help him get away from the abuse he gets"

    And call the police.
     

  3. Combining 2 and 3.... Not a bad idea. Fuck man it sucks seeing people go through shit like that.:(
     
  4. tell him to go to church and take a fighting stick to his parents, skunky, you know police fuck everything they touch up, dont call the police, theyll just let it continue if the parents pay them enough
     

  5. I'm neutral on the whole police thing.

    However, I'm neutral on a lot of shit, as you can tell just by the premise of this thread. There's bad and good in everything. :confused_2:

    The cops up here seem pretty competent, honestly. Plus they don't give a fuck about weed, but this is BC, so that's nothing new. :laughing:

    ...And fuck church.:p
     
  6. lol despite whatever personal beliefs you may hold there are benefits to religion..
    besides that, hope all is well though
     
  7. tom thoughts his thoughts were torn but really they were just tom
     
  8. Sure does man, child abuse isn't a laughing matter he needs a friend like you and his parents need to be ass raped by a big black guy in prison called Mental Joe :mad:

    And in response to sensimilia that's possible.

    So gooseman either you go over there and mess shit up or someone else does :p
     

  9. What in the fuck are you talking about? :confused:
     
  10. #2, always. its just the right thing.

    but how old is he? i can imagine him being that old and being abused, yet again, things happen in this world that absolutely shouldn't.
     

  11. He's 17. Four years my junior, like I said.
     
  12. does he go to a school? you can contact them, but if not, deff contact the police.

    i hate that shit, i "snap" if i witness child abuse or abuse of any kind. Thats not who we are as humans.
     

  13. Naw, he's a dropout. I just hate seeing this happening. I'd administer an ass whooping on his dad myself but first, I'm pacifist, and second, I don't need assault charges.
     
  14. dress up like a ninja and wear an anonymous mask
     
  15. Police man, its not like they will come storming the house. They will call child services and those people do an amazing job, they will take care of the rest, all you need to do is call.

    your call buddy
     

  16. Yeh think this is the best choice.
     
  17. im just gonna leave this here
    just cause its beautiful
    dime bag to whomever can watch it all in one sitting
    can only make it a couple hours at a time
    myself
    [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkfVdrtLcRs&feature=related]Trololo 10 hours - YouTube[/ame]
    my god hes wonderful
     
  18. What the fuck :eek: That things 10 hours long :laughing:
     
  19. lol im only on hour fourty two minutes right now, could go for days
     
  20. His parents will pay off the police and going to church will end the abuse??

    Wow, great post :rolleyes:
     

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