This is my first plant, and she is budding all over since I got her lighting situation figured out, anyway, I have a question..............I have heard people say that the tops of the buds are the best, and I have heard people say to cut the tops off when you start having a decent size bud. I don't want to hurt my plant, she has been thru enough, so any help on this so called "topping" would be great! Thanks!