Too good with my fingers?!

dude, just go down on her and use your fingers at the same time, works wonders for sure, she would love it

 

I don't blame her for settling for the fingers. Seriously, a vast number of women cannot orgasm with vaginal penetration alone AND, there's no risk for pregnancy.

ETA: And I'm not going to "stroke" your ego about what # of orgasms is normal. Really? That's your question.

 

Actually, he asked how many during foreplay.

 

If you guys aren't having sexual intercourse, fingering isn't foreplay.
And no, 2 orgasms per session is nothing special.

 

Chill brah it's only been a month, how old are you?? You'll get it in soon, she's probs just a bit shy and has morals so it'll take longer than a month.

 

Truth.

Besides, the girls who hold it back are generally the ones actually worth being in a relationship with anyway. The longer she holds it back, the more the anticipation will build, and the more satisfying it's going to be for both of you when you do it. Stick with it brother.



///M

 

This^. I don't think she is settling for your fingers, she is just not comfortable giving herself up to someone for sex right now. If this is an issue between you two, you need to talk to her about it.

 

Good to hear man The wait will definitely be worth it for you if you really do like her and this is more than a sexual prospect for you.

And in my experience, a girl who can easily orgasm by fingers can even more easily orgasm during sex. People who can't cum when they're being fingered generally have a harder time letting go and really experiencing the pleasure. So, in that aspect, I think you will also be just fine

 

well it seems your only option is to break one of your fingers and get a cast, that when you can be like
"golly my fingers seem to be broken, i guess we will just have to fuck"

 

when youre both nude and making out and jerking each other off haha, pull her on top of you and keep kissing her, act like you arent in a fucking position. shell probably start doing this dry hump motion, and just let your dick sit there, all hard and what not. every once and awhile let your dicks head touch her vagina haha. she wont be able to resist XD

 

this had me giggling like a schoolgirl for a good minute haha

 

This man has a brilliant plan, once the tip of the cock starts teasing their pussy they can never resist!

 

that is actually true. well played.

but yeah, good on you for respecting her wishes! it's nice when dudes recognize that a lady has other merits than just sex, you know?

also, believe me when i say that she's thought about it. it's likely she just feels uncomfortable bringing it up, it's a hard conversation to have for some. if i were you i'd gently approach the subject, ask her what she wants and how she likes it and how she feels about it. chances are she'll be pretty open with you!

it's pretty silly how reluctant we all are about having these kinds of conversations, when really good sex only comes out of a place of trust and understanding.