After 4 years of friendship, I told her tonight, that I was attracted to her. When we first met, we made out once. That was all, due to the respect of a friend. Well recently, me and that friend had a falling out. Last week while we were hanging out, we started making out pretty heavily. I must add that I have hooked up with most of her friends in our social circle, including dating one for a year. After we stopped making out, she said she felt bad because my ex is her friend. She said she has thought about hooking up with me before, and that I am good looking, but she feels bad. While we were talking, I mentioned having a crush when we first started hanging out, but that I couldn't act on it because of my "friend." Then I asked "What if I still had a crush." She just kept replying with "But you don't." The thing is I get mixed feelings from her, hot and cold. I can't tell if shes resisting, not interested, or what. Trying to keep it short, so feel free to ask if you need more details. Thank you.
in my opinion she obviously likes you or she wouldnt reply with "But you dont", could be her reaction to you hooking up with her mates and not her, shes trying to work out what your up to, be straight up tell her how it is, sounds like u got a nice one lined up
haha not yet man. I thought that too, but i was trying not to over think it. She knows what I am up to and what I am about. I thought I was pretty straight up with her, but she is really hard to read. I would not be surprised to hear that I am a blind fool for not seeing how obvious it is, or that I am an over analyzing (Huh huh, he said anal)one pathetic loser, and shes not interested. Pardon me, but I don't understand what you mean by, "got a nice one lined up"
do. not. pussyfoot. be straight up. lay shit on the table. let the lady figure out if she's worth you or not. simple as that. if you do it any other way, your just wasting time on someone who possibly isnt interested, when you could be looking for someone else. tick..tick..tick...
it's up to you to make her realize that it doesn't matter whether or not your friends are cool with it. if you like each other, be with each other... it's that simple.
That wouldn't make sense. All the alphas do is fornicate and enjoy life. edit: okay, I just reread what kojopolis said, and now it makes sense... he's say girls want alphamales, if you're not an alpha, you're a beta and therefore friendzoned.
Yea, after I left her house that night, I didn't say anything to her. Then she texted me at 2am a couple days later, right before I was gonna pass out, and I was fucking blaaaazzeddd. She left around 4am, I smoked a bowl, thought about my night, and passed out.
