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Threesomes with your significant other

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by darksmoker, Mar 29, 2012.

  1. anyone have any experiences with it? was it FFM or MMF? did it make it super awkward afterwards? me and my girl have been together a little over 3.5 years, and last night i had a dream me her and some dude were doin it.

    i told her about it and said it was kinda hot, and she said yeah the thought of a threesome is kinda exciting. she said would i want it to be with another guy or girl, and i said i would much rather it be another girl lol but we could do both. she said the thought of it is exciting but she doesnt know if she could ever go through with it. she even asked me who the guy and girl would be, and when we would have time for it (since we live in different states and i legally cant enter her state). lol. think i stand a chance? :p
    idk if i would go through with it either, but eh
     
  2. no way I could do a MMF with my girlfriend... I wouldn't get anything out of that and I wouldn't want to see some other dude railing my woman.
     
  3. the thought excites me for some reason. but i told her he wouldnt do the fucking i would lol. but like i said and like i told her i'd muchr ather it be a FFM. lol.

    i thought that might piss her off like "oh so you want to have sex with some other bitch then huh???" but nope instead she asked who the other girl would be lol
     
  4. I just can't see this doing anything but ruining a serious relationship.

    I know there are those couples that can be this comfortable and free with themselves and their partners, but besides that 1 in a thousand couple everyone else would be RUINED :)
     

  5. With a name like TheOldReliable ya gotta listen up, If this person gave themselves that name its more of a curse really.

    Not to mention hes right chances are slim to none that this would have zero effect down the road.
     
  6. I would personally never have a threesome involving someone I was dating. It would have to be a strangers/friends thing. I think it would make things really weird. That's just me though. Some couples can do it and it's fine, but I just wouldn't want to risk ruining a long relationship like that.
     
  7. yeah, thats pretty much exactly what i was thinking was that it could ruin things...but eh, we both thought it was exciting but that we couldnt act on it, so maybe it'll just be a fantasy in my head where it belongs lol
     
  8. Threesome ????

    Then, That Means...... I have to kick 2 people out..........Uh Uh...NO WAY !!
     
  9. With my ex girlfriend I had lots of threesomes with other girls. Me and my ex even regularly dated a few girls.

    She is my ex girlfriend. we dated for about 8 years off an on. But evnetually we did break up So have to put that disclaimer. Although the threesomes and other women had no part in our eventual break up. She was bi, very into women and was aggressive/very open to women about getting them to join us. so threesomes and hooking up with girls was a pretty common thing for us.
    Only a handful of times with other girls it was akward, usually two girls can break the ice pretty quick, or make it seem fun and easy afterwords.
    With my current girlfriend we've had a semi/quasi threesome. Me and her and one of her girls all messed around and then her friend watched me and my girl have sex. Was pretty casual afterwords, we were all drunk and high so we all kinda blamed it on that.

    But... I have had a few mfm threesomes way back in the day. Never with a girl I was seriously dating. And those have been a little akward at times. there was never any m on m contact, and I'm not into guys. So afterwords I was just there naked with a guy and a girl louging around. I personally just felt akward and after a few minutes just wanted to put my clothes back on and be done with it lol
     

  10. well, how was it? the FFM's. i've heard its a pain in the ass to keep 2 girls satisfied at the same time. and theres no way in hell my girl would do anything with the other girl besides make out with her maybe and that kind of thing, nothing super lesbo-ish though.
     

  11. The FFM's were great for the most part. Loved them, even the so-so ones were still pretty nice so can't complain lol
    There were times when I couldn't keep up with the girls. I'd usually cum 2 or 3 times, some of the times after my 2nd time getting hard and cumming I'd pop a viagra. Not just so I could keep up with them, but just so I could enjoy the experience as much as I could and do as much fucking as I could. some threesomes would be wham bam, pretty quick and wild. other times we'd be at hotels, or just be with the right girl and spend hours/all night having sex, hanging out, having sex again lol. And even after I was all tapped out, I still just enjoyed watching the girls play

    A few times there was drama. One girl was married and didn't tell us, even after hanging out/having sex 4 or 5 times. Didn't find out until one time we were hanging out and her husband started blowing up her phone. One time a girl wanted to date my ex girlfriend and take her away from me, one time a girl wanted to just date me and take me away from my ex. etc. But those were few and far between, and lots of normal casual dating/relationships have drama and problems too. It's just when there's 3 people involved there's more of it sometimes.
     
  12. I'd end up knocking the fuck out of the dude for even thinking about touching my girlfriend in the slightest bit of inappropriate. Yeah, I'm not down with that garbage.
     
  13. D and I would be with another girl, but I'm fucking picky.

    Whatever, it's not something I will think about every day but if the opportunity arises then we'll probably do it.

    Another guy would disgust me. I'm not down with all that. I mean, it's rare that many guys are attractive to me and I've already got one...
     
  14. I would be so down to do a FFM 3 some with a friend. I could never do it with someone I was dating. I'm not a jealous person at all, but I wouldn't be able to handle watching my bf that I loved fuck another girl.

    I feel like if I'm with someone then I'm only fucking them and they're only fucking me. But that's just how I see it.
     
  15. Id do a ffm maybe. Definitely couldn't be in a serious relationship.
     
  16. FFM. With another guy? Idk about you guys but my first love cheating on me kind of ruined any of that. All I thought about was her fucking someone else and shit and for her to actually do that MMF, I would have to have zero respect for my girlfriend and not like her in a marry way. She would have to be more of a slut. Kinda like my ex, shes such a slut but she doesnt admit it. It's halarious though cause everytime she calls me when her new boyfriend she lives me is at work she tells me how good she is. It's so sad because now that I don't date her anymore and I've come to realization with the help of psychedelics, it's halarious how all knocked up young girls are the same (unless they have money). I.E. Pretend to love in order to get something back (I.E House and food for their kid). Sad life, sad life I know. I'm glad I'm away from that now.
     

  17. Put into words my thoughts on the topic.


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  18. Oh, fuck no. There's no way.
     
  19. MMF would never work for me.

    FFM would be to much pressure.

    I want nothing to to with that mess.
     


  20. That my man was deep. You didn't happen to be on those "unmentionables" while writing :confused:
     
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