..but for the past year or so I haven't had anything go past a first date. It's usually a mutual lack of interest, I don't know what that says about me... How much I smoke is a turn off to most guys (an 8th to a quarter a week) I'm not willing to change that or hide it, but I don't think I should have to, it doesn't hold me back at all. I'm in school and have a good job. And the other thing is I feel like (this is probably me just being lame) that everyone is in long term relationships. I just want a stoner guy, that should be simple. I'm just feeling super lame tonight because I ran out of weed yesterday and can't pick up until tomorrow.