So let me give you some background info: The guy im talking about was the man who took my virginity when i was 16 (he was 21) and since then we have continued to hook up simply as "fuck buddies" he is an alcoholic and addicted to cocaine, however he tells me everytime we're together that he isn't coked out, but i can tell, and even taste it. Anyways the other week it was 1:30 in the morning and i get a phone call from him, asking for me to come over At the time i was still asleep when i was talking to him so my words weren't coming out right, he thought i was drunk, but i wasn't. I proceed to tell him im not up to hang out and then he goes ahead and says he will PAY me to come over and have sex. I told him i wasn't a prostitute and hung up, and haven't spoken to him since. I know he was drunk, but does that really make an excuse to turn me into a prostitute?
no..theres no excuse...but then again, think of all the money you coulda made by saying no earlier...lol jk but yeah, thats shit...no matter what drug or drink he was on turning you into that is jsut plain shameful..youve known each other for a few years and thats just..ugh..cant even talk..got a nose bleed...bbl lol
1. You shouldn't expect more from an alcoholic coke head 2. Why are you even offering him that excuse? Just because he was drunk doesn't mean he can treat you like property 3. "haven't spoken to him since." You should continue this trend
No it doesn't. Either he was so drunk he couldn't control what he was saying or he, either temporarily or permanently, stopped respecting you. If you still regard him as a friend you could contact him telling him what he did (he may've been so drunk he couldn't remember). If he still respects you he'll apologize immediately, if he doesn't he won't.
Would you sleep with me for a million dollars? I might consider it. Well would you sleep with me for a dollar? A dollar?! What kind of girl do you think I am?! We've already established that. I'm just negotiating.
NB: Not sticking up for him, he sounds like a prat, but.. Are you sure he said he'd pay you for sex and not pay you to come over, as in pay for your gas/taxi fare or whatever?
being drunk is no excuse. they say your the most honest while drunk, that your true feelings tend to come out unexpected. this could be how he's felt about you all along. i had some friends in similar situations and would come around talking about this girl like all she was good for was sex. not to rag on my gender but most men will say anything to get in a womens pants. and not think twice about her feelings. we think with our second head too much of the time.
well you were sleeping with dude when you were 16 and he was 21..... maybe that gave him the wrong impression
Shit, no but hell he was drunk . People say stupid shit all the time when they're drunk. I wouldnt worry about it. Im sure it was just some stupid drunken remark.
He's not just a coke head and alcoholic, he's also a sex offender. He called you at 1:30am for sex because he struck out with another piece of tail. Quit being an idiot and find someone that respects you. You said yourself that the 2 of you are just fuck buddies. Good for him, not good for you. You are basically just a prostitute, only better. You have been giving it away for free. So it is possible that he thinks of you in this way. You've enabled him. The most powerful muscle in the world is between a girls legs. No other muscle can be used to purchase houses, cars, and various other luxury items. You are just giving it away. From a guys standpoint, it's great. We love fuck buddies, or like I used to call them, My Backups. Someone I could call whenever I needed to release a load. Beats the hell out jacking off. You are too young to worry about getting laid. Don't expect a man to take care of you, you need to establish your own life 1st. Make sure that you can make it on your own, then look for someone to share your life with. Someone that has their life straight, not some coked up, drunk loser. And when you find someone, maybe try keeping your panties on til you get to know each other. Yes, guys like a girl that gives it up easily, but they will not respect her. I was a male whore when I was younger. My current wife knew me then and we were good friends. Not fuck buddies. We didn't have sex until after we had been good friends for a year. I probably was with 15 different girls that year, and I didn't respect a single one. They all dropped their panties on the 1st date. My wife and I's 1st night consisted of a few hours of conversation about whether or not we wanted to risk our friendship. I'm glad we did, it's been 17 years and we are still great friends that love and respect each other.
high five. theres so many girls that are like this and think its ok... they have a different mind set then guys. they may think its a little more than it is. Theres NO guy that has a fuck buddy and thinks of them more than a free whore. Shit, some guys think of their girl friend like that. Ever listened to Apathy? haha. Theres just some girls that are ignorant and refuse to look at things as they really are and there are some guys that are douche bags I almost had a fuck buddy once but I couldnt bring myself to do it... too depressing plus how pathetic and horny is a young guy who will pay a girl 5 years younger than him for sex, especially when it was fucking pedophilia?
I had the same thought. Remianing 'fuck buddies' kind of sends a mixed signal as well. Stop talking to him if he offends you. Simple solution. Next time don't keep having sex with someone and get mad when they call you for a booty call.