I've been seeing this girl for a while nothing has really got serious yet.... We kissed once... And she is also seeing another guy... But I think he doesn't like her seeing me, I've wanted to smoke with her for a while but whenever we plan something (like smoking) she always chickens out the day before she really gets spooked... What the fuck do I do??!!
Yeah I have I've taken her flying in a light air craft.... We've been out, we've spent a lot of time together aswell
Use reverse Psychological, give her space and stay busy. If it doesn't work, fuck it. Roll a joint and invite a different chick over.
Use the "fuck it" method as the guy up there said. Theres not much you can do man she'll choose who she wants to be with.
[quote name='"MingusMan"'] Life's a bitch ain't it[/quote] Yeah man shit happened to me some time ago. But itl get better maybe the next girl is bustier than that one? Haha
The "fuck it" method is wonderful. I had a long relationship and I was so distraught when it ended and was constantly trying to find someone to fill the gap. When my mom knocked some since into me with the "fuck it" method I stopped caring, stopped searching, worked on me and what I wanted, and found my husband not to long after. YOU knew her longer, she met him, she's picking him, so stop trying to pick her. Even if she wants to play both fields you shouldn't let your emotions to her allow her to treat you like that. Fuck it method is fool proof, even if you don't find someone you start to feel better about yourself which is something you can't do swooning after a girl who doesn't seem to care about you.
just give up find another, and by the time you do, she'll want your dick (so you can have a threesome possibly?) but seriously
Makes total sense. But I wouldn't give up, If you want her, take her. fuck that other guy. If he doesn't like her seeing you she'll see he's insecure and you'll come out on top, i've snagged a few out of a relationship with no remmorse.. It's a free game.
Why would you dedicate yourself to someone who is obviously not dedicated to you? Seems like a meaningless relationship if you ask me, and the fact that you've snagged a "few" means they really didn't work out. So you may be "snagging" girlfriends but you're not helping yourself finding one that will stick around for you. This girl isn't dedicated to him like she is the other, she ditches him, it's obvious. Him stealing her away doesn't all of a sudden make her the most faithful girlfriend, if she didn't like him being just himself, then he doesn't need her anyways.
