i don't really know how do deal with things with my girl sometimes. like we've been dating for almost 3 years and I love her to death, but with her depression and anxiety and my own anxiety, we sometimes clash and just get into these slumps. the times where we are happy are the best times I ever have, but the times when we get sad suck. about 6 months ago she caught me talking to this other girl that she's told me not to talk to. I have no feelings for this other girl at all but just the fact that she's told me not too talk to her and I did anyway raised her suspicion. its not like we fight/argue 24/7 it's more along the lines of one of our emotions making both of us sad. does anyone else get this with their girl? is there a certain way you deal with it? I'm not prepared to do anything along the lines of calling it quits with this girl because I'm madly in love with her and would do anything for her god, I feel like I'm explaining this really awfully and sorry for the wall text.