they took everything!

Get a job, move out, then try to explain to your parents how it isn't bad for you. Right now they're probably all steamed and paranoid, but if you move out, they'll back off a little bit and listen to you.

 

Honestly, c'mon man you're 18. Are you moving out soon? If so, problem solved! If not, tell them you're 18 you are an adult and can make your own decisions. If they say you're living under their roof so it's thier rules then you're pretty much fucked becasue that's the truth.

 

If you are 18, which I doubt, they can't do shit. Your an adult now because your eighteen, right?

 

If you think your parents will do random tests on you and whatnot, you should prob lay off and just do what they want you to do until your done high school. It would be better to just lay off and finish high school, even more so because its a private school and if they pull you out it could fuck up your future. But thats just my opinion.

 

thsi is always teh main concern for everyone, i knwo how you feel my parents went through my stuff abotu a year ago and did teh same thing, well it was my mom and she smokes too, she kept all my damn shit but its part of the risk, marijuana is still not an acceptable drug by most and parents who have never done it seem to think its such a horrible thing. sit them down and have a talk with them. if your desperate tell them that the guy lent u that till u could get the money and now hes out looking for you and that you need the money for it

 

dont listen to these kids. your still uder your parents roof whether your 18 or not. i do not suggest moving out b/c you are in hs still. i would respect my parents and slow down.

 

man dont listen to all these people questioning you if your 18 just cuz you live with your parents thats how it goes guys if your parents dont have money coming out there ass and cant send you to college im 18 live with my mom and would be a senior in hs if i didnt drop out

 

Theres nothing wrong with living at home i doooo but my family is super chill. I would just confront them about it and talk and talk and talk unless you are bad at talking your way out of thhings, then dont talk. It seems like if i keep talking i can get out of most problems i run into.

 

My friend just got bumped in school, and his parents went crazy. One month in impatient, and rehab monday-friday. not a good time for him, i suggest you stop for a little while. Get your parents trust back, im also a senior in high school. do not move out, thats jut crazy. lay back for awhile, its worth it. trust me.

 

that cant take u out cause ur 18, and random drug tests well dude ur 18 that cant do shit unless there threatening to kick you out then you might want to do that then, and dude u should have said that some of that shit wasnt urs and now ur gonna get ur ass kicked or soemthing that worked for one of my buddies and dude your 18 that cant do shit if you smoke pot tell em whats sup and that you smoke it man

 

Gotta side with Meatwad on this one. Nothing wrong with living with your parents while your in HS. It sucks that you lost all your stuff, but its just stuff and you will eventually get over as "stuff" comes and goes. You only get one set of parents in life, and unlike stuff you will never be able to replace them. When I was your age I always had to hide all my smoking from them cause I knew they were not cool with it and would be pissed if they ever found it. My advice would be to respect them and their rules and work on building up the trust again. You'll have your whole life to make whatever choices you want, no need to ruin your relationship with the rents over something like this.

 

lol, rediculous, I like how people say that you should just plain respect your parents......by those standards you should listen to your government also.......Which is absolute crap. Your parents are threatening to ruin your life if they try to take you out of school. Therefore I would threaten to ruin theres by letting them know that you have hidden weed throughout the house and if they do not stop thier shit you will call the cops on them, and make sure you tell the cops you did not start smoking till you found your parents stash. Would I ever do this to my parents? No, because my parents love me and would never do anything to jeapordize my life, even if they are unhappy with my use of cannabis (which they are )


And to the poster above me, if his "rents" would allow thier relationship to be ruined do to canabis, then they are likely not parents anyone would want.....In some cases no parents are better than none.....ask the Child Protective Services they take kids from thier parents for good reasons (and bad ones) all the time.

 

what i did a few years ago was whichever parent is more easy to talk to talk to them. ask them to talk and tell the truth. when ur honest about it your one parent they will talk to the other one and the situation will mellow out.

 

go clean if you want, keep smoking if you want, but be careful.
and i dont think you have the right to be mad at your parents for taking your shit, you are leaving drugs in their house man, and if you are american i know this is no pic-nic. it was your choice to buy that expensive of shit and theres nothing you can do about it now.. unless they are going to give it back!
try to educate them or encourage them to educate themselves about cannabis
when they realise it isnt 3843 times worse than alcohol they might lay off..
good luck

 

it is isntead 3843 times BETTER than alchohal, they have more to worry about you dieing from binge drinking or liver disease in old age than of you even getting the whooping cough from dodi

 

moving out while in hs and only 18 is not as easy as it sounds. i recommend doing what they say til you graduate, have a job and money saved, then you can move out on good terms and toke all you want.

 

thats such garbage!

Graduating from a public school is good for your resume, so think future man.

Sucks bout the kush for sure, if my mom was anti, and said she smelled shit in my room, id get that shit outta my room quick.

I went ahead and had a convo with my mom a few nights ago. Now shes 100% understanding, I grew a crop, and she knew about it. I smoke in my room when i want, and she knows it. She knows im not dumb enough to get into serious drugs.

You might want to have a talk with your parents. Tell them you wont do it agian, they can test you if they want, just quit till you go to college or move out. If they are serious about the school thing, they will go to excessive means to get you to stop doing it. So look forward to how much fun its gonna be when you can!! If they ask you why, feel free to read up on Norml.org and find good reasons for it. Tell the truth tho, I explained to my mom how i could never OD on weed, and how you could put someone in a room fulla cheeseburgers and a guy in a room fulla weed. And how given the burger room eats till they are gone, he will die. The guy with the weed could smoke the whole room, and walk out and finish the cheeseburgers the other idiot left behind! HAHA, not the last part, but i felt it was necessary.

I also told her how natural it was, parents relate it to other drugs because our government has associated it with htem for a long time. They think about the MDMA labs and Meth labs, and cookin crack in the same description as growing weed?!

I like to think of it this way also.
Vegans dont eat meat or animal products because they think its wrong. People can get mental highs because they think they are "doing the right thing". THey can eat vegies and get high, but we cant smoke weeds?

 

Good terms are over-rated when dealing with selfish ignorant parents that would threaten to ruin your education..../sarcasm on I mean that is REALLY gonna keep you from becoming a drug addict, everyone knows school dropouts are far mor likely to say "No" not mention are most likely to get good jobs and live a happy life......./sarcasm off