I not like the men who is compassionate just to get in the favor of the women. He is not good for the picture of all men and should be punished. The women is all like the compassion men, so this makes it more harder for the real men to being in favor of the women. So women, is it the preference to the compassion understanding 'girly-men', or the real men who is man? I not change being compassion anyway, but I like to know.
I guess what youre asking is, if girls like guys who pretend to be compassionate just to get into their pants, or if they like men who arent compassionate and are more cold hearted. From my expierence, girls and women like a well balanced man. Someone who is not fake, someone who is compassionate, but who can also be a man and take the lead when it is nessecary. I hope this answers your question JapanWind-sama.