These are just my thoughts. Whether you agree or not, please try to limit your posts towards the thread topic, no insults. As we see with the majority of mammals, the male impresses the female with physical dominance over another competing male. He may also try and boast his physical appearance. The female now belongs to the male, because the strongest, more dominate male, means choosing the best protection. Human females either chose the strongest minds, which leads to being satisfied mentally, because the male uses reason in situations to never betray his female. Generations after generations could create survival of the fittest. The fittest being the smartest, in this certain situation. What do you think? Which is smartest for the human female? One who can provide protect, or one who can provide emotional comfort? Should there be more decisions? Which ones? Can we predict who the female will pick, by observing her every day environment? Share your thoughts, doesn't matter who...
this "law" of nature is only seen to be completely manifest in this day and age out in the wild world... domesticated animals generally have no choice on who they bread with...or if they get the chance to bread at all? yet when the time does come....and these domesticated animals do get the opportunity to bread....even tho the mates have been chosen for them...they often exhibit the same"trait" as part of the mating ritual.... often this must be done ..and done well...even in captivity....even with pets.......the female will often deny a male who cannot show her what she wants to see...one who does not have what it takes to impress her....so ...it is so ingrained ...it is instinct....not conscious choice... they just "know" whether that mate is right or not.... it is or has not always been about protection ither....with many animals the male is long gone after conception..... in most cases it is about desirable jeans(sp?)...the healthiest make the best mate ...they make the healthiest children.... here we run into a bit of difficulty.....yes in many cases it is just as you say.....but we also have the problem of "the system" the system has made it possible for the dumbest -those who cannot provide for themselves......not only to survive...but to prosper in some cases.....and evn in the "worst" cases...we find a system they makes it not only possible for them to breed but profitable for them to do so as well...... so our "system" has not only held back the process of natural selection.....but in many places reversed it completely..... now here we must consider the female herself....what are her needs? each female is different and has different needs.....altho they may be similar in many ways.....they are not the same.... so one of the benefits of this "world" we have created is that she can decide for herself what it is she needs.... she can ask herself ...which of these needs is most important to me? which is smartest? all depends on the individual female..... lmfao!!!!! predict what a female will chose to do!!!!! lmfao!!!! no never ...not at all all thru out recorded human history....every so often.... when the world became a bit to over populated.... some nasty shit came along and wiped out two thirds of the population..... this has been in the form of natural disasters....but more often in the form of some type of pestilence....a plague of one kind or another.....but it killed indiscriminately! rich or poor.... old or young.... indiscriminately! and when it was over and 2/3s of the people were dead..... life was much better for all those who survived!!! more food and more work for those who lived... the thing is..... now every time a new "plague" of some kind or another comes along....we let our science and medicine put a stop to it before it can do its job!!!! i could and likely may go on..............
A factor that I consider is the ability potential gained from finding a mate, because we are humans there are many opportunities available to us, so what pathology of love gives me the greatest benefit and freedom? My fantasy is one mate for life, my philosophy is live and die together.
The female is always going to chose the strong intelligent male--where it is obvious there is none in comparison to him. These are the males the females will fight for---and settle for the next best thing when they can't. This is a very naive view you have however if a rival lion challenges the male of the pride he's gonna fight to the death and the females will choose the winner as its their nature. No amount of mental reasoning can go beyond this primal instinct. The males also don't stand around waiting for the female to pick lol they make it happen a male bird of paradise pimps out his pad for the female the male doesn't go like oh I hope she likes me for my moral standards . Reason can't be reasoned with if the male isn't bashing the other male down in some sort of way he aint gettin' no play. Female doesn't need someone who provides emotional support she needs support period as in a male taking charge for her situation--manning up. Any other decisions make the simple simpler and unnecessary as all decisions derive from the original decision--to pursue or not pursue. And this has nothing to do with love--since we're talking on a philosophical and spiritual level