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The guy that stole my money, hit me up for more.

Discussion in 'Beginner Cannabis Consumption & Tips' started by JBright, Sep 13, 2012.

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  1. #1 JBright, Sep 13, 2012
    I posted in my main post, but I also need some other point of views on this I just wanted to see what you guys think when a guy that steals your money when you pay up front for bud, and calls you back later with an excuse and request for more money.


    *phone call*
    dont remember it exact but il ltry my best.

    "Hey, man you won't believe it, I just got released from jail, I made a turn with out signaling and got pulled over, it was stinking hella, and you know we smoked too, but the stuff is still in the car, the cop never got it, You working today? Let me get some gas money and Ill bring it to you. (note: HE FUCKING SMOKED MY FUCKING WEED HE WAS SUPPOSE TO BRING ME)

    Basically I need you guys to talk me down cause he sparked up my anger.

    Thanks again =)
     
  2. #2 mozzy38, Sep 13, 2012
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    See whats going on, If he says he's going to bring it, then yeah... see what happens, but if you feel like you're going to be Jacked, Bring a little "something".
     
  3. #3 HellsHippie, Sep 13, 2012
    anger is a disease that slowly will kill your soul and cause the loss of respect for you from others...Never linger on anger...A true man can take a Blow and not bat and eye about it...thats true strength my friend...Dont taint your spirit with anger
     
  4. #4 DriftingApart, Sep 13, 2012
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    The minute that you make an attempt or an indication that you wish to (once again) purchase weed from this same person, you are setting yourself up for not only future failure but disappointment.

    If he ripped you off the first time, and made up an excuse about it, giving him money is going to show him that he got away with it, and that you're a nice buddy to keep around when he needs something to smoke. Sure, you may end up getting a decent bag next time you hit him up, or even the following time, but when things get tough for him (financially) you're his fallback. See what I'm trying to express here? He's using you.

    Until you discover that that is not how the sale of a plant should be dealt with, and that you should not have to deal with people like that under any circumstances, its going to occur again. You have to be the one to decide that you deserve better than that, and once you do you will meet people that fall into this expectation. It may take a little bit of time to change your perspective and restructure your persona to be more social and meet worthier people, but it is absolutely worth it.

    If you're on a merry go round and you start to get motion sick, you have the ability (and knowledge) to get off. If it's that obvious, why haven't you done so yet?

    Furthermore, violence perpetuates violence, and will not help the matter at any level. It will also make the use of it more typical for future situations, thereby planting the seeds to your own self-destruction. You will attract violence characters into your life if you perpetuate violence, as the power of attraction is very powerful and very real.
     
  5. #5 JBright, Sep 13, 2012

    For sure, my friend said the same thing haha!! btw you should take the "stab the bitch" part out to save your self the warning from a mod. just an FYI


    Thats what I am needing thanks! and it really does help me when people tell me to not stoope to a losers level because they would beat me with experience.
     
  6. #6 Malamala, Sep 13, 2012
    I would tell him to come over and get your bud. If he wants gas money just give him a dollar or something haha.
     
  7. #7 Dopethrone420, Sep 13, 2012
    He ripped you off once, he'll rip you off again. Cut your losses and tell him to fuck off.
     
  8. #8 HellsHippie, Sep 13, 2012

    exactly a man that looses his cool...is a man who is weak emotionally....your stronger then that bro...and more mature...So give him the silent treatment and bow out with grace...That will show him more of a man you are then to just freak out and cuss at him with a possible fist swung....Is it really so important as a man to show you dont take no shiit and will fight?...i had enough of that mind set in prison....This isnt prison so we must act civilized...Karma will get him...You just flow with your life and dont put stumbling blocks into your own lifes path...keep it smooth and steady bro...Much love man
     
  9. #9 THCdelta11, Sep 13, 2012
    I saw your other thread and he seems like a wack dealer
     
  10. #10 JBright, Sep 13, 2012
    I am really hoping KARMA will get this guy. I know KARMA exist because What you said about meeting better people. I have a new friend that dosen't bitch about me smoking and is down to drive me physically to MY dealers not his, and pick up.

    I also met a dispensary worker thats gonna hook me up with some oil.

    Those are just 2 of the things keeping me from going all out Psycho Berzerker on this guy.

    And everyone here is Helping me sooo much thank you!!!!!!
     
  11. #11 TUSCANRAIDER, Sep 13, 2012

    I just saved this quote. Powerful stuff man.
     
  12. #12 ICGreen, Sep 13, 2012
    Well in order to get the gas money, he has to come to you. He has the weed, brings it and you check it and flip him a 5. :smoke:
     
  13. #13 spazx, Sep 13, 2012
    I'd tell him forget the gas money my friend said we will just roll through. Ask him, Can I have the weed you owe me or do you not want more money from me in the future? Make sure he knows you don't play games
     
  14. #14 *guest, Sep 13, 2012



    Yeah, but I'd also consider either being in a public place or having a few friends with you in case he tries to pull something.

    Don't give him a cent until you get the weed and have a chance to weigh it (you have a scale, right?).

    Even then, I'd probably still tell him that the $30 extra you gave him for gas last time was more than enough.


    Just be careful, whatever you decide to do. His story seems shady as fuck. Cops don't arrest people for making a turn without signaling, and if the cop never found the weed then he wasn't arrested for possession.
     
  15. #15 JBright, Sep 13, 2012
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    Yea, I have a scale, I even straight up told the guy I scale all my pick up haha.

    Yea he thinks its still middle school or high school or something, trying to pull that kind of crap with me.

    His excuse to me was like "blah blah," but when I heard he said "we smoked some" thats when I got furious because thats my bag, and he just straight up went into it and smoked his friend out with my bag then tries to ask for gas money HAHA!

    I love you guys though, Im starting to calm down now.
    At work, wish i brought my vape,

    Junkie, your last comment, was the thing I was trying to figure out behind my head!!! THANKS SO MUCH hahaha, i was trying to figure out What he was arrested for and like how can they like not find the weed, if he supposedly say the weed was stinky as fuck
     
  16. #16 *guest, Sep 13, 2012
    Simple answer is that he wasn't arrested, guaranteed he's full of shit on that part.

    I'm just not sure what his game is here. I'd be worried that maybe he just plans to jack you for the gas money, which is why I say to do it in a public place or with some friends around.

    Got any large, intimidating friends? :p
     
  17. #17 JBright, Sep 13, 2012

    LOL, Got you man, thats exact same thing one of my best friend said, he was like, Tell him to meet you at a nearby safeway that he can walk to thats public, and tell him to go alone, and we will be rolling 2 full cars. LOL I cracked up so hard.

    Most likely I will take the advice from Hell,drift and everyone else that contributed. and just ignore that guy I don't need this kind of stress in my life right now. I guess reason why i wanted to get back at him was the feeling that people would Look down on me if I just let him take that money from me.

    But since everyone here is already saying how crappy, and a loser this guy is, I know that I am the better man If I just say what ever, and move on with my life.

    thanks everyone.
     
  18. #18 OneLoveMaryJane, Sep 13, 2012
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    give him some gas money, if he does it again kick his ass

    Please don't promote violence. Mat369
     
  19. #19 cunty88, Sep 13, 2012
    i wouldn't just ignore him he said he still had it and will give it to you. just say you'll do it and when he asks for the gas money say you want the bud or money back first but have some sorta backup incase. imo he's semi legit and just a little fucked up or he's a complete douchebag that needs a lesson
     
  20. #20 derpyhooves, Sep 13, 2012
    Can't believe there's even a debate about what to do here.

    Fuck him. Type his legal name into google then add mugshot. If one doesn't come up for the date he said he got "busted" tell him yeah I know you're lying, you owe me a bag of bud and you're not getting anything more till you pay up
     
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