Where to start? She is it and I am shit. Her opinion no doubt! women have no faults men have but two! every thins they say and every thing they do!!!!!!! Men do not forget that^^^^^ Chemical imbalance of the brain. then the only person whos right is her. A phsycologist told her that she needed medicine to stableise her chemical imbalance and she told him that he needed to get laid. WTF??? So as the story progresses. I haven't been able to do anything right in over 12 years. I have been there for her through the good times and the bad with the good times disappearing and the bad times taking over. Well whats left to do but have her commited! The doctors get her stableised and she is doing great. Then one day she decides she doesn't need the medication no more. What happened next like to have ruined me to say the least! Affairs and lies and turning the kids against me. Then she takes off with the kids and I don't even hear from her for a week. That has happened 9 times in the 16 and a half years we had been married. My life and buisness had just about blown to hell in the wind! So life turned into a cycle of horrors for me. One week it was this next it was that. I had so many mixed feelings that I thought i was mixed fruit jelly! I was working more and more and not enough money to even eat lunch on. I was fucked. Tennessee is a woman state. Unless you can prove abuse to the children, the woman gets custody. Fucked again! Until Last AUgust when my oldest son said " dad enough is enough what can i do". The more I try to get along with her the more I think she hates me. To the lawyers office I go. Shit hits the fan!!!!!!!!! I'll post more soon. This is a subject that cuts the balls.