Well I hate texting but it seems nowadays it's 75% of communication and my "I'll see you when I see you attitude" doesn't work when it comes to girls...so I need some help. What the hell is there to say or talk about? I'm always at a loss. I refuse to text a girl with absolutely nothing to say and waste both of our times and make me look bad in the process. But at the same time I keep losing contact with girls all the time because I never talk to them outside of when I'm with them. They think I don't want to talk to them which isn't true at all. IMO texting should be used for not much more then planning further dates/get togethers but it seems girls want to actually talk and have convos when I really have absolutely nothing to say. And I really hate sitting on my phone when I'm doing other things. Is texting really nothing more than ask a stupid question get a stupid answer? Am I missing something?...I don't know what the hell im doing.
I find texting annoying sometimes, I would rather just talk to the person in real life. Just ask them how they are doing or what they are up to, make a conversation out of that. Find something to say back out of what they are saying.
It's just another way of carrying a conversation, and definitely the preferred method for the upcoming generations if you look at the trends and data that support it. You could use it solely for setting up rendezvous or you could introduce some substance into it. I've found some of the longest texting exchanges I've had with girls started over the most random or mundane shit. I agree with you when it comes to not sending something pointless, though. Don't force yourself to send a stupid text if you think it's pointless. But don't underestimate where smalltalk can go. And if you receive a dumb text from a girl soliciting you to talk then don't hesitate to send whatever the hell comes to your mind. Oftentimes the whole censoring process covers up otherwise genuine conversation. I used to get a small rush when I would say something very sarcastic or provocative through text, as if I were taking a risk. It's become pretty routine now if I say anything to speak my mind. Otherwise, I don't think we can give each other meaningful tips for texting, it's too subjective. Feel free to prove me wrong and post some clever insights in general if you can.
Sounds to me like your thinking about it too much, explain to girls you don't really like texting and a girl texts you keep the conversation going. I feel sorry for you how ever cause I love texting!! I do it all the time, I'm on my phone texting this in right now! Imo it's the way of the future, just another way to connect with those around you. Simple, covenant, and the best thing about a text is you can stop the conversation for hours even a couple days and start it up again like no time had passed at all!
Man, this is the easiest shit. Ask her about herself; I mean, if you're just interested as keeping these women as friends. If you're attracted to them, be to the point and express your interest a little bit, see if you get anything back.
meh, not all girls like texting. personally, I get annoyed if a guy keeps texting me constantly. I also don't like talking on the phone.......I'd rather just meet up in person ^__^ so if you don't like texting, just tell them....sometimes i think people text just because they think they are supposed to
I hear ya man, but I like talking to girls in general. Whether it be on fb, texting, or IRL. It's fun and usually gets me in a good mood.
with me, i find that texting always works when im first trying to get to know a guy, sure nothing beats face to face, but im kinda shy, and texting kinda takes that barrier down abit, also it means i get to plan and edit what i say... plus its nice to get a random text from a guy, even if it is a bullshit text, it lets me know theyre thinking about me....
Throughout the history of time, there have been certain technological and scientific advances that have benefited bros more than any other group in society. The Red Zone Channel, Internet porn, and the morning after aka "murder pill" immediately come to mind. But above all these incredible innovations lies something that would have made our Great-Grandparents threaten to burn us at the stake like all those slut witches back in the day. The idea of “typing into a phone†would have sounded fucking insane just 10 years ago, but thankfully, unlike society, technological developers are dedicated to Bro Rights. Through hard work and determination and no doubt many lives lost, tech geeks put aside the fact that they will die a virgin to help out a group much-overlooked by society's brocist reign of terror: the bros. Thank you Techie nerds for all your hard work and “holding out for marriage to avoid STDs†because bros fucking love Texting. Texting is the fucking shit. I still remember the first time I discovered texting. I sent one to my buddy saying something really important along the lines of, “Fuck you,†or “I banged your Mom.†Over the years texting has evolved and you better fucking believe bros are taking advantage of that shit. Let's take a look at a few of the things that bros fucking love about texting. No Conversations: Have you ever seen a girl get out of class or work? Immediately she gets on the phone and starts fucking yammering away, most likely about how awesome bros are or which Twilight character's “team†she's on. Bros don't have time for that bullshit. We have much more important shit to take care of – like getting fucking wasted and banging slam pieces. Texting lets bros get the message across quickly without any fucking fanfare. “Where you at?†“What time you getting there?†or “Did you end up banging that slut?†are all common bro texts that not only get the point across, but also avoid time wasting bullshit like “Hello,†“How are you?†or “Goodbye.†Funny as Shit – Fact: Bros are fucking hilarious. Bros have been sending funny texts about all the shit they do to one another way before bro haters started writing fake shit and submitting it to Texts From Last Night. Unlike all those fucking losers praying that their area code gets on the mainpage of a website, bros actually live that shit. Say there's something that absolutely has to be shared with all your bros – like that you just took a massive dump on a car windshield – you better believe you're sending out a mass text. Or what happens when you finally bang “Big Tits Bartender†– you immediately have to let your bros know about that shit. Thanks to texts – your bros won't have to wait to hear that you banged her in an alley while some homeless man slept nearby. Effortless Sex – When a bro gets a girl's phone number, he doesn't wait three days to call just so the girl doesn't think he's “too into her.†He doesn't get all nervous and practice what he's going to say to ask her out on a date. Fuck that. When a bro gets a number he uses it for one thing and one thing only: late night booty-texts. Now, under normal circumstances a girl might be offended if a guy didn't call for a week and the first contact made (other than a facebook friendship to check out bikini pics) is a 2am Saturday night text saying: “Want to hang out?†but please, we're not taking about normal guys here – we're talking about fucking bros. Bros might as well just text “All Aboard†to slam pieces, because there's only one thing that a late night text from a bro means: the Pound Town Express is about to leave the fucking station. So, this weekend, as the bartenders scream “Last Call for Alcohol!†and you start sifting through your phone to find who you can Text-for-Sex, think back to all those hard working Techie nerds who made the sacrifices to protect and foster the Bro Rights that you fucking deserve. Give them a nod, because while Lord knows they won't be getting laid tonight, you better fucking believe you will.
-Always have something interesting to talk about. If you aren't doing anything interesting or haven't done anything interesting lately, come up with something. -Take your time inbetween texts, don't reply right away. -Don't reply with boring one or two word replies but don't always type out a paragraph. -Don't just talk about yourself. -Find out what they're doing this weekend so you can get together.