Is this like a talent given at birth or something cus I just can't...and I like bein told to say something but I think I'm all awkward when I say it cus in my head I'm kinda LOLin
I can only do it when I love the other person... my boyfriend is the only person I've done this to... I trust him and am comfortable with him so it's easy for me
I like taking control when I notice someone is shy with this kind of thing. You'd be surprised how turned on your partner can get regardless of what you're saying.
for me, its the opposite, i just dont give a fuck, i do it for fun someone ask me to talk dirty (like the context) ill give you help man
Start out small until you feel more comfortable use a low, sexy voice or drop it to a whisper when you feel you can't say it with a straight face. Sometimes a little pillow talk is a good thing you'll be surprised how turned on one can get. its just practice.~
See, I do it different. I like to scream at the top of my lungs until my girl is so annoyed she tells me to shut up. Problem solved
i would start out small and work your way up in mean time loose yourself in the experience and make a lot of noise (don't fake it lol) i am pretty loud and the next girl that complains will be the first
My girlfriend is the same way. She wants to but its hard for her most of the time. I'm slowly starting to encourage her to do it more so she can be more comfortable doing it.
yes great advice talk to inanimate objects sexually in order to have better communication skills in bed. thats what i do when i masturbate, i talk to my penis
Its suprisingly easy once you get going with it. Before sex, whisper the things you plan to do, how it will make her feel, etc. Try it during rough sex, it will be a lot more natural, I think. Talk about the sensations you feel, ask her questions, tell her what to do, tell her what you're going to do. Really, just force it out the first time or two, and it will eventualy flow out.
ha glad this thread is up - im been wanting to work myself up to this...im kinda quiet sometimes...so guys tell an inquiring girl what YOU like to hear!! and i know i def gonna watch some porn, well more porn, and take notes...
Haha i do this all the time with this chick.. like we'll text it and stuff and do it in person.. but it's hard for her to do it on the phone..she feels embarassed.
lol...even if I knew what to say it would still be a lil embarrassing....if I'm drunk and high its a lil betta but even then I don't think I'm as into as he is...and I neva initiate it you know like whispering in his ear " --- --- --- pussy?" lol and I think thats what he wants...I know it is
I love when girls do it!! my ex never did.... pissed me off! even when i talked dirty to her she never got into it.. oh well. shes my ex now Any women enjoy talking dirty? lol