stupid mom keeps bringing up random fuckin marijuana facts

This is when you need to be straightforward.

Quit blowing her off and say something about it. You're an adult - she doesn't need to be constantly calling you, telling you shit that's not only true - but uncalled for even if it was.

Tell her how you feel, and tell you would seriously like her to quit all the anti-MJ stuff. If you keep it away from her, she should keep her shit away from you.

 

His mom just cares alot about him. i dont care what anyone says, its not gonna be the same unless your a parent. she is ignorant to marijuana facts, and is really only looking out for her sons best intrests. if your some was doing weed, and you had the mentality of weed bieng a horrible drug like crack, youd do the same thing if you cared.

 

^ well said.

Yeah, mom dukes jus' cares about you.

I bet if you jus' said to her "listen mom, i am a responsible adult and i enjoy smoking marijuana at times, i still fulfill my duties at school/work(whatever you do) and i would like to show you good marijuana facts."

And then show her some positive facts about the sweet leaf.

 

Thanks ZST. i kinda understand parents viewpoint, but i dont understand pressing viewpoints on others. you gotta let people be who they are.

 

tell her u quit lol.

one time when see calls and says a fact e like "oh, damn.. i didnt know all the effects and stuff, im going to quit."

 

I'm with bliz and zero. She just loves you man. I know it gets annoying, but it's all outta love. My mom calls me all the time when she knows i'm out of town, and that gets annoying, especially when i'm busy and can't answer the phone at the moment, she always assumes i got arrested (which has never happened *knock on wood*) and freaks out. It's all outta love.

Maybe you should start calling her to see what she's up to, and be like, "you know, marijuana has been shown to significantly slow tumor growth in lab rats" or "marijuana has recently been shown to be a very effective treatment for early onset alzheimers."

My mom's chilled out a lot because i've been slipping little facts into conversation when i could, and her stance has softened. Just be glad your mom loves you enough to bother you.

 

Everytime she says a "fact" that's false, just tell her the real facts. For example, I don't think anyones ever got cancer from weed. How can you get cancer from weed when it helps fight cancer? That's what I would do.

 

last thing you wanna do is blow up on her.

keep cool. tell her that its purely recreational and that you are responsible about it and say stuff about how yes you understand there are some bad things about it but it also has many good things that seem to be left out of the infopacket given to kids at school.

tell her that you promise nothing bad will ever come from it and as soon as you think it may get in the way that you will stop or at least cut it back some.

and yes when she gives you some spouted out thing about how bad it is for you let her know that it can and does help with your anxiety. and that living on your own is rough and it can help with clearing your mind and getting your shit straight.

 

best thing i can always think of to say to people who dont like bud is "weed aint never killed nobody" and thats a pretty positive fact considering every other drug prolly has

 

Hey crack isnt that bad.

 

I would try to dig up random bull shit facts about things she enjoys doing and then call her a bunch and tell them to her so she can see how annoying it is. Or you could just tell her that you think its annoying and that even though she is your mother and you deaply respect her oppinion, its a choice you have made and she cant really influence it.

 

wow that is awkward and random...I pity you, my friend.