hello all, i am going to graduate high school in a couple months, i am not going to college but ill spare you the details on my future. Most of my friends have girlfriends or have at least hooked up with girls and i have not, ever. this fact alone does not bother me. The thing is, i just want a girl i can passionately love and will love me back. And have copious amounts of sex! I see all these girls in school and stuff, a lot of them are your average high school drama gossip queens who i want nothing to do with. But i see a lot of down to earth girls that i think i would really get a long with, and am naturally attracted to some of them ill see random girls that are attractive who ive never talked to before, and ill just say hey whats up just for the sake of it. They'll just be like oh hi, nothing much just another day. and thats that. I have no problem getting along with girls and stuff, im not self conscious or ass ugly, its just nothing else ever happens. I know most of you will say, oh go the extra step and ask for numbers or whatever, but it just doesnt work like that, it never gets that far you know? I feel like, i should just wait, and mabye after high school they will come to me but im sick of waiting, and i dont want to end up a lonely person for the rest of my life. Sick of spending weekends alone, coming home from school to just be alone. I have plenty of friends i just need a girl i can love and who will love me back and unlike some guys, its not just about the pussy, i strongly feel like i have all these emotions inside of me, that i can positively influence people in many ways, i want to, but nobody gives me a chance, nobody really listens because they probably have these preconceived notions of me, like a stoner or slacker or whatever. Even the people that dont like me, i love them anyway, i pray for the well being of everyone, even people that disrespect me, i would die for any of them. but often times i think its because i have nothing worth living for
Well I am in the exact same boat as you my friend. Everything you said was like a direct reflection. But I am slowly making strides to change that. My problem is I am not much of a talker, I suck at starting conversations but if you start with me I could carry it for a while. but then we go back to those preconcieved notions you mentioned
Well, I guess I'm just not approachable? I don't know but it's the exact thing that he described. I have oodles of guy friends and girl friends but nobody has ever taken a romantic interest in me.
I need a girlfriend, I'm lonely Someone to love me and fuck me I need to get laid immediately But also someone to fulfill my needs. Pretty much explains me right now. Kinda similar...
Your approachable in my opnion, judging from your picture anyway plus ontop of that you enjoy the herb. Thats rare in my town
Well, then... I'm at even more of a loss! Haha I've genuinely never been in any type of relationship more intimate than friendship... eh.
My advice to you all would be to just go up to the person your interested in and ask them to come hang out 1 on 1 and just let them know how you feel about em. That way they know how you feel so they might be more open to let you know how they feel about you, and hopefully they will feel the same way. This is how I went about looking for a girl or boy "friend" and its worked for me.
I'm in the exact same situation. Don't expect girls to come to you though, you gotta go out and make it happen.