So I'm curious whether this plant is screwed and has spider mites or if these are just sun spots. Also there are some see-through esk small spiders that like to hang out on it and I'm wondering if I should let them or if they are bad and should be removed. Thanks. Also if you can tell the sex by these pictures? http://imgur.com/a/kpnSK
That spider may eat any bad pests you get but he also might spin webs in your buds... I would kill / remove it. Do those spots rub off or are they damage? They look pretty healthy at first glance.
Those spiders are not causing it, get paper underneath it and attempt to shake the plant to see if mites fall of. Increased air circulation and attempt to keep cool, maybe humid. Mites attack in hot dry environments, according to the gardening books I been reading. Not sire about those spots...if you find insects give your plants shower to help keep them off until a sure fix is found.
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