i mean i handled to the best i could at the moment, could it of been done better or worse, maybe. ... this sucks, i can't think normally, part of me is saying end it part of me is saying dont give up
Well if anything, I guess there are plenty of fishies in the sea. and like u said i think? in your first post that you can probs find another lady, maybe one that is better suited and not having these problems. My girl doesnt do any of that, and we r long distance n stuff. Next year I am transferring and basically round trip to visit will be roughly 120$ or so..which really I just cant do..I didnt really tell her yet, and i just want summer to be good...i just feel bad maybe ending something that is only ending because I will never see her (cept winter break is guess..) I understand your contemplation between sticking it out too.. last g.f. was similar maybe worse, and i waited 3 months for her to change, and I finally just gave up. Do people change? guess thats your call.
It sounds like you guys rely on each other way too much to solve each others problems, maybe backing off each other for a bit would help. Gain some independence back, ya know?
maybe i figure i'd give her space, i haven't talked to her since. ill just let her take whatever time she needs to get her head straight since thats what she's essentially is showing. i figure, why should i go crazy trying so hard if it doesn't mean anything to her you know.