Blades, im confused. I work with this girl, lets call her N. Me and N just met in January because she got promoted to my department. We instantly clicked cause we both know my ex gf is a complete psycho, and thats all we talked about for a few months. But last night we worked together and N was acting a little flirtatious toward me. First I was talking to her about how i havent had sex since August ( ) and then she said "oh well me you and my bf should have a threesome, I want to ask him!" and she was being completely serious, which really threw me off. Now we'll call her bf R, I've been friends with R since elementary school, not like best friends, but when we see eachother we act like friends. And i know him enough to know he would not be happy if N asked him if i could join the in a threesome, and I probably wouldnt feel comfortable having a threesome with a guy involved anyways. So I told her not to ask him and she was like, "why? why would you be scared for me to ask him, he's not tough" and when she sad that it just made me feel confused and awkward so i kind of just changed the subject. Then later that night I bent over to pick something up and she ended up smacking my ass and then smiling and giggling. This is when I decided that she is probably sexually attracted to me. So after work we walked out together and she insisted on hanging out with me alone in my car untill she had to go pick up R from work, BUT thank god one of our mutual friends was waiting outside with a blunt and wanted to smoke us up, so me and N got in the car and smoked. At one point during the blunt sesh, N bent over to the front seat to ash the blunt and i was was sitting in the back seat with her, so i decided to get her back for earlier and i smacked her ass, and she turned around and gave me a real sexy smile. After the blunt we both left and went our separate ways BUT it left me thinking Blades, What should I do about N? Should i do anything at all? should i tell R?
i like how you were like "this is when i decided that she is probably sexually attracted to me" when she smacked your ass. when she said "lets have a threesome", that didn't hit a signal or anything? lol
If your good friends with the guy, leave it. Bros before hoes. Since she is a hoe (flirting with you, giving signals while having a BF), and if your not good friends with the dude, hit it.
Good chance her and her boyfriend are at home getting high and laughing at you right now. If i was in your position i would fuck. Call up R and tell him his girl just fucked you and to fire her. Tell him you didn't really want too but you did it for your friendship to see if she was serious or not. And she came on to you. He might fight you but thats it. And his girlfriend IS a ho. So i hope you don't like her.
This would likely not be R & N's first threesome with a male. Unless you want to tag her with his dick there, run away.
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Sounds like you could make it happen without her bf being involved. So, if she is a 7+ then hit it, 6 or less leave it alone, not worth it
just destroy her at work and let R destroy her at home. that way she gets both of you and you dont have to have a 3some...duhhhh
Hit it and quit it. I had a very similar situation at work, without the threesome talk. The only diff is her BF worked there too. He ended up getting fired a week later for theft.